How soon..? I hope it's okay if I am in this group. I just lost my baby girl this last Nov at 38w. She was our first. Me…

Thank you and congratulations @justlucky! I hope this is your rainbow! :)

Yes I have gotten bad dreams since our ttc talks have become more serious. I'm terrified of losing another child. But starting a family has been one of my biggest dreams and I know it'll be worth it in the end. I feel empty as if I have this huge void. During pregnancy, my body and mind started preparing and adapting to the reality of having a baby and now that she is no longer physically here those feelings and instincts don't just disappear. All that's left is a void that only a baby can fill.

And I don't see what waiting is going to change. My grief and saddness will never go away. I just have to learn to adapt.

First and foremost, let me say I'm so sorry for your loss :( Anyone who has had a mc knows how difficult it can be to ttc again. I had a mc 4 months ago while 9wks along and just found out we are pregnant again, 7wks so far. We waited until my second cycle to ttc and it worked, so hopefully this pregnancy ends well the second time around. Best of luck to you!

Thank you guys for sharing! I'm sorry for your loss.

@Britt I wish you lots of baby dust!

And congratulations @Lady!! How exciting. :) Sending sticky baby dust your way!

LeahBeth I lost my first in December 2012 at 15 weeks no heartbeat and had to have a DNC. We waited until October 2013 to start trying again and we are still TTC.

Thank you ladies for sharing with me. I'm sorry for all your losses too.

Hi LeahBeth, I had my first mc @ 12 wks baby had stopped developing at 9 wks. I had a D&C 2nd Oct & we started TTC straight away. I got my second BFP 18th Dec but unfortunately it ended in another mc 9 days later @ 5 weeks. I have just got my AF last thurs & we are planning to start again this month. Everyone is different in their journeys & only you will know what is right for you. I'm sorry that you have experienced this awful loss but just know that all the ladies on here are a great sounding board & no one passes judgement. Good luck Cathy x

I'm so sorry for your devastating loss. I had an early mc at 6 weeks. We got pregnant thr first try with that pregnancy and got pregnant the first month after the mc with my son. I'm currently ttc again with no luck but it's because I'm breastfeeding and not fertile yet. Good luck to you!