Pet peeves since joining bb
What are your pet peeves since joining bb?
Dirty deleters!
Or when OP posts and most people start disagreeing. Suddenly they'll add in all these extremely relevant (and probably exaggerated/made up) details to make people agree with them.
And I hate the bullying! I don't mean when people disagree with an OP. I mean when they disagree with an OP and then go to EVERYthing that OP posts to talk crap. Even when it's totally harmless and irrelevant.
I don't EP anymore but i did with my first and hate when someone EP and ask for advice and people say 1. Don't you know its harder to get milk that way? 2. "Just put baby to the breast"
Grrr! Like they don't know! Eping is hard.
I hate when people delete posts too... (But i still do it myself. I talk/think/feel so many things regarding my marriage that sometimes i just can't stand to think about others knowing what i know and say "just leeeave" when i'm too scared still (true story) but just feel the stupid need to say something somewhere to let myself know "ok, i really should leave". I'll get there...)
- so that part (deleting) i can atleast understand
People who get angry over really trivial stuff that doesn't matter like use of reins or onesie wearing.
New one from this post (since I'm a graphic designer & photoshop trainer - apps that change photos are not photoshop lol. Photoshop is photoshop) / ok that one doesn't annoy me but I had to correct!
Babyyyyyyyyyy
Meeeeeeeeeee
Wowwwwwwee
Raveeeeeeeeee
Endless selfies
How many months do you think I am?
And I really hate the endless selfies complaining about "omg I'm sooooo fat!! " They are just fishing for compliments
The ones always wanting to pick a fight . "The sun is out and it's a beautiful day out." "No batch it's a horrible day here so stfu!"
" My mom smoked when she was pregnant with me and I came out fine."
"Can I get a tattoo while pregnant?"
"My man cheated on me , beat me , stole my money, slept with my mom/sister/best friend, but we can work it out because he really loves me."
"Even though I became pregnant at 13, I have my own house, have a really good job, and you all are just jealous because you are old hags!"
" It's true love! We are so in love that it doesn't matter that I'm 14 and he's 32!" this is not on BB but the problem my co worker is having with her daughter. Needless to say after it was found out she slept with her 32 year old boyfriend , her mom got him arrested.
Other women worrying about my son's penis.
When women/girls post about their POS dirtbag baby daddies asking if they should leave and or posting every problem they have and two days later they are a happy couple again at least don't make yourself look like a stupid idiot by posting about your drama and then forgiving them and posting happy pics. Lmao ?
People doing dumb stuff during pregnancy. Like being past 12 weeks, knowing it, and getting large tattoos right on the stomach.
Or teens trying to get pregnant. I saw one story where a 16 year old had a miscarriage then ended up pregnant again a few months later. Or teens supporting 15 year olds. I'm sorry I was a teen mom at 17, and I wouldn't wish it on anyone else. It was hard.
I'll probably catch heat for this but the heavily photo-shopped attention-seeking photo's annoy me as well. Every time I see one, I want to ask if they think they are fooling anyone? We all know when someone's been playing with the makeup 360 app lol! I just can't comment and be like "holy smokes you are gorgeous" when its pretty dang obvious that they have heavily edited the photo to where it doesn't really look like them. I want to say great photoshop job lol!
Askholes... pardon my forwardness ;)
When people ask for advice and then discredit or disregard every piece of advice offered mainly b/c they have their decision made and don't really want advice or are not open to other views. If you are looking for validation on something you want to do/feel etc... then you state that and not ask for advice. Annoys me ;) but I am a realist and quite moody right now ; )
I hate the whole don't judge attitude. Seriously it's way over used, judging is actually a good thing it helps us distinguish between situations. . For example "baby's bleeding out of his nose while mom's yelling at him" well don't judge maybe she's having a bad day and he started having a random nose bleed from a disorder. Seriously use some common sense, sometimes things are exactly what they seem to be.
People who ignore sound advice even though they know better. Know better = do better.