I would seriously just laugh if my husband ever said anything like that to me...

I wouldn't be getting him cigs either, if his ass wants to be unhealthy then his ass can go buy them... Oh and buy me a candy bar while your at it!!!

My SO jokes around, "woman, get me..." But it's totally jokes.. I look at him like he's gone crazy, and he gets it, or will ask politely.. If he was serious though I'd get pissed..

Oh my lord, do people like this still exists??

Run for the hills love!

Id give him less on his plate after that and say no everytime he asks me to do something

I'd laugh in my husband's face.

And then kick him in the shin

My hubby needs larger portions than me. But he's ten inches taller than me and like 80 lbs heavier...

If you're close to the same size then I'd guess they should be even.

shrug

Weird that it's a sudden change in Attitude.. Has he been watching too many old school movies or something?

I'd be telling him to now the lawns on a weekly basis, repainting the fence, polish my car, buy me expensive jewellery etc if he thinks these 'roles' should exist.. What a jerk!

So would be doing his own darn laundry, making his own food and cleaning his own mess from now on.

In my house we hsve a saying: If it's not on the list, it doesn't exist. I am generally the one who runs errands, but I don't read minds. If something is not on the calendar or on the shopping list I'm not doing it

Put it on the list and I'll pick it up next time it's convenient to work in with the rest if my errands. If you want it before that, you get it.

I'd have lost my s*** at the first reference of me not doing my "woman's job." And there's no way in hell I'd ever go get his cigars after that incident, unless it was to stuff them down his throat. I have zero, and I'm deadly serious about zero, tolerance for the degradation of women. Y'all need to have a good long talk, because if this is truly a sudden change something is going on with him.

My husband gets more food then me at dinner, but he eats more lol. Everything else makes me want to yell "AW HELL NA".

If that was me I wouldn't have even gone and got the cigars the next day either. If he's going to treat me like trash I sure as hell won't be getting him his 'treat'. Fuzz that shiz!

I cant believe you went and got his cigars. If he were treating me like I had a specific "role" he'd be doing his own laundry cooking his own meals and doing his own damn shopping. I do nice things for my husband because I want to not because its expected or I have to. The moment he starts acting entitled is the moment I stop.

When he gets home I'm going to have to have a sit down and talk with him. Normally it wouldn't even bother me at all! Id just brush it off and roll my eyes. But now that our dd is here its different. She has to know she is equal to a man and not below one. She is only 5 months but old habits start early...(maybe not that early but still) although he is great with her and i couldnt have asked for a better father for her, he needs to show her how she should be treated by treating her mom(me) with respect. So a talk has to be in order! I know it does. I am kinda lost on how to bring it up. Its definitely NOT an everyday thing! At all!!!

Ain't no way. No, dear Lord. I would have bought food abd not gotten the cigars.

But, I am the one who enjoys paying for first dates and smokes and collects pipes and tobacco so I think the guys I get with know I don't play gender roles well. I'd just have a talk with him. After that, I'd ignore his comments. Not follow him up.

Nothing more is going on. I know for a fact. Idk why his attitude changed. Nothing has happened with us. Just his attitude. I don't let him get away with that s*** . Like I said i still do what iv always done it just pisses me off that he said that. He is usually the sweetest person.... I told him that crap isn't flying with me... and their is no excuse for it! I'm not just going to up and leave him. I do love him and he loves me and our dd but I won't let him "degrade" me per say. Its not like he's beating me up every night. He never laid a hand on a female. But as women we worked hard to have rights and not be below a man. I told him he wasn't any better than I am and he said he don't think he is but his attitude says different. I want to have a serious talk with him and tell him its not ok but Im not good when bringing s*** up. Like I always feel like what's in the past stays in the past.. I feel weird just bringing stuff up like that... idk why. I think its bc I don't want the other person to be like your just now bringing this up when you should have done it when it first happened. If that makes sense. Dd keeps trying to take phone. She wants to chat too. Lol

Wtf did I just read

Does he work with a bunch of older guys that bad talk women? They r probably putting ideas in his head! My SO said a few things kinda like that (not as bad though). I blew up at him and he apologized and hasn't done it again! That was a few years ago.

You need to put your foot down before it's too late. This is not ok ?

Wow. And the douche bag award goes to...

Pp it just started a month ago! We have been together for two and half years! I dk what his issue is. And I still do what I always have done. But seriously to say s*** like I'm the man and your the woman is a no go in my house! I dc if hes the damn president! That s*** don't fly with me! You don't get more just bc your a man. You get more when you earn it! And as of right now he didn't earn anything that I didn't. He works but I work too. He may make more than I but my job is much harder than his. I believe a woman is just as equal as a man is.

Oh no. That doesn't fly in my house! We have equal roles, if he's tired I'll take the trash out. If I'm tired he will cook dinner, no man should treat a woman as if she is beneath him and a servant. Your boy needs a reality check

.... Why are you still with him???

That isn't even remotely ok.

I would shove my foot so far up his ass he'd scream like a little girl. That is no way to treat a woman! You can eat whenever and how ever much you want. There is no way I would let that fly.

Ummm, no. That s*** would not fly with me. Why do you put up with someone treating you like that?