Just think it's funny ? I've talked before how my SO's mother never sees dd. Well I put on Facebook…
Just think it's funny ?
I've talked before how my SO's mother never sees dd. Well I put on Facebook how my parents are watching dd tonight and it was only 2:00 and they're already texting me "where's our girl" because they can't wait to see her. I also mentioned how I love that my family loves to spend so much time with her and the more love the better. Well my SO's mom is on Facebook and shortly after I posted it I get a text that says "do you guys have NYE plans because I would like to see London" she also said "I can't believe I'm going back to work Tuesday after being off for 8 weeks!" I'm not dumb I know she saw my post and wanted to act like she wanted to see dd. Also, she took 8 weeks off of work and lives 20 minutes away and never stopped by. She's one of a kind. I don't even know what to say back to her.
deleted-user·
I would just say "sorry, we have plans and DD is anxiously awaiting going over to my parents house for the evening! Have fun going back to work and happy new year!"
deleted-user·
It's her own fault for feeling left out
The only thing I would say is
"Yes we have plans but we have made plans for my parents to watch her, maybe sometime next week or so if you're not busy she can stay a few hours with you if you'd like"
deleted-user·
I honestly wouldn't reply.
She isn't worth it. If anything let your SO talk to her
deleted-user·
You posted about who is watching your baby? I would keep those things to myself. Avoid the drama.
deleted-user·
This is why I don't have my MIL on my Facebook. Only in laws I have on my Facebook is BIL but that's because I've known him longer than DH. Either don't responded or tell her you already have plans if she keeps pestering you.
Brittany ·
@exc1t3d I like your reply I might go with that. I don't think it was a big deal to post on Facebook I was just laughing at the fact that it's the afternoon and they already want her. I tagged my mom in it because it was cute. I'm just going to unfriend her. I'm new to Facebook so if I unfriend someone does it notify them or anything?
deleted-user·
I don't see how posting about who will be watching her baby will cause drama. If MIL tries to make drama out of it, that's one thing. But posting about her parents watching her DD so that she will be able to celebrate NYE alone with her husband shouldn't cause drama at all.
I wouldn't reply to her text at all. Your husband can deal with it if he wants to. But I hope you have a good time tonight, OP!
deleted-user·
@OP it won't notify her if you unfriend her. If you want to try to keep the peace though and keep her as a friend, you can just restrict her from seeing any of your posts but you'll still remain friends. She just won't be able to see any of your statuses or updates.
Brittany ·
Thanks @miss I will do that then! I'm not even going to reply to her it's not worth it. I'm just going to have a good time tonight and I know dd will have a blast at her grandparents.
deleted-user·
It just sad that the only time she wants to see her is when you already have plans for her to go over to your moms.
deleted-user·
Let MIL feel guilty all alone!! There's no reason for you to feel bad about bragging on how involved your parents are in your child's life. She could've taken advantage of that same bond, nobody's fault but her own!