No and it makes me mad because I'm 9 months pregnant with two toddlers running around 24/7. Like dude, do you know what I do all day?!

Not really/:

My house is generally pretty clean but I do a deep clean once a week and every time I do, my husband says it smells good but never says anything about how clean it looks.

Mine does notice EVERYTHING and its annoying bc i like to move things around tje way i like them and he likes thing in a different way so he moves things back or makes me move things back.. But what ever.

He doesn't say anything until I tell him all that I did, and then he will say he noticed and thank me. Other then that if I don't bring it up he don't say anything lol but he is very genuine when he thanks me so I thank him back for all that he does as well.

Not really. I'm the only one who does any cleaning or housework, so it never dawns on him. If I tell him I cleaned, he will say it looks great. I don't really hold it against him. He has a really stressful job, so I don't bother him with any chores at the house.

My husband always notice, even the smallest details. His favorite saying is, "you never cease to amaze me."

He just needs to learn your love language, PP. Charge it to his head and not his heart. ❤️

No but he sure notices when I don't do it ?

He always tells me "house looks great babe." Even if I only get the living room clean. It really makes me feel good that he took the time to thank me. I'm sorry that he didn't notice. It's a lot of work to clean!

I only listed everything I did in a full day of cleaning and DH could only count maybe 3-5 times. I had 20ish items on my list like, laundry, dust, dishes, vacuum... ????

He notices everything. I came home for lunch today and while I was home I did the dishes (just a few that I didn't wash after dinner last night). He sent me a text as soon as he got home thanking me for doing the dishes. Our marriage isn't perfect, but we both do a good job at acknowledging the work the other does.

No, my SO only notices when I don't s*** . It's so annoying.

He noticed we have 3 kids so walking in a house that don't look like a daycare stands out.

Yea my house is usually pretty clean. But most days there's toys scattered everywhere lol. He said he did notice but I don't believe him. I think he just said that to make me feel better lol. But after I mentioned something he said wow it looks really good in here. Again I think he was just trying to be nice because I worked my butt off cleaning. My kids were in school. They only go for 4 hours. So I dropped them off at 9m went grocery shopping. Trying to meal prep for the rest of the week then spent about 3 hours cleaning. Then I got to sit down and eat a peaceful lunch in front of the tv. Had to watch teen mom from last night lol. Then picked up the boys from school. Like I said before my husband hardly lifts a finger at home except for playing with the boys, making dinner some nights and occasionally helps clean up the toys after the boys are in bed!!! I really can't complain he's a great husband and father!!!

He only notices when it's not cleaned ? then I smack him him upside his head (I may or may not be kidding).

Thankfully, yes. Although, for the past 6 months my house has been in a disaster state due to a terminally ill dog (passed away a few months ago) and then a water leak that destroyed our kitchen, floors, and drywall downstairs. So it's been chaos and messy, so when I clean hardcore he really can tell easily. Prior to that I kept things tidy almost all the time, so he didn't notice when I did a deep clean or anything.

Maybe this just means you have a pretty clean house already! And that's a plus!

My SO always notices. I've been dealing with a lot of depression so anytime I even put on a little makeup or I pick something up, he makes a big deal of it and makes me feel great ?

My fiance notices. Only if toys are picked up though. Thats what he hates the most. But I could steam mop and stuff and he wouldn't notice. But if I pick up all the toys and sweep, he loves it. Thats because we have a lot of arguments about when I dont clean so he appreciates me. I also just tell him what to do to feel better about myself lol

Sometimes he does. Sometimes he doesn't. Annoys me when he doesn't. He's not very observant.

Mine doesn't notice at all, but he definitely notices if I don't do something. Lol

Yes he does. He also tells me he's noticed, normally he'll come home say Hi, good day I take it ?,If I've tidied round. If I haven't he asks if I've enjoyed my lazy time.

I wonder though, does he really not notice it does he just not mention it?

DH notices but he doesn't *always* say something right then... sometimes he may say something later in the week.

Yes my husband notices everything, and always thanks me for what I do.

Nope lol not until something happens where I'm out of commission for a half day or something . Then he stops saying it would take him 15 mins to do the whole house . Just wait till I go in the hospital to give birth everyone's going to get a bf surprise lol my kids are home schooled so just imagine the mess

I'm going to add that my husband never ever cleans!!! Like ever!!!

He never complains if I don't clean. My house is usually clean but today I did a deep clean. But I could totally tell how dirty my hardwood floors were. So I though it would be noticeable to him when he came in but it wasn't!!! ??.

Um most of the time no lol. So irritating

Nope just b**** es about the "things" that aren't done ?

Nope. Probably because our apartment is almost always clean so it's not really a big difference. The only thing he ever notices is when I fold laundry because I rarely do that. ?

Yes he does and he tells me thank you for cleaning and always thanks me for dinner as well. He has tought the kids to do the same ?.

Mine actually does. I love it! He'll walk in the door from work, look around & say "wooow it looks really nice babe!" Unless of course I didn't do anything that day, then he just says hi ?

Mine does, but he also has OCD and not the cute kind. ?

No never. I have to point it out. ?

Yes he does, but he knows I love to be praised so he makes it a point to compliment me when he notices these things, or I tell him.

Nope then asks what's for tea, even when I've just got home from work and he's been home over an hour before me ?

Depends some days my so noticed and some days he doesn't. I'm a sahm so I clean really good almost everyday so to him it's the same he only notices things like his clothes being clean or his area/stuff being cleaned it's annoys me when I've spent hours deep cleaning the entire house and he has the nerve to ask me what I did all day ..

Yes mine notices, but he knows I like when he mentions it so he makes a point to say something little. He thanks me for doing his laundry all the time too.

I spent ALL day cleaning yesterday. Worked my butt off. I made a point to show him what I did. If he doesn't notice, that's fine, but I don't sit around and hope he does. I'll just let him know how hard I worked. ?

Nope ?

Nope. But that probably means your house is usually so clean that there isnt a dramatic difference.

Like really dude?!?! It would be nice if they noticed stuff like that lol

Nope. He only notices when things dont get done. Thankfully he also knows those are the bad days and helps me out instead of complains

Nope ? I know how you feel.