It's been a week
since we laid Vincent to rest. Walking by mirrors and my bump not being there, not feeling him move, he's not in there anymore, but he's not with me. I keep getting his scent sometimes throughout the day.
I'm so sorry. I think it's awful they told you to wait your spinal headache out. I had one, they did a blood patch and it went away, but then it came back and I waited it out and it was terrible. They should be able to do a blood patch for you. You shouldn't have to deal with a spinal headache on top of everything else.
You are in my thoughts and prayers love. My heart breaks for you and I can't imagine the pain you are feeling. I think it's wonderful that your so is so supportive of you and takes care of you. The people who are judging you should be happy that you have him in your life! May God bless you always! ??
You need the support and positive supportive people around you especially going through something no one should ever have to experience. Ignore them. They don't understand what you're going through and they have no right to judge who you're getting support from or who you had with you. Words can't make it better but i am so sorry you're going through this.
I don't think you should feel guilty about having your SO there with you. He's been your rock and loved your little angel. Please don't take to heart anything those people are saying. They aren't in your shoes and they have an obvious lack of character. Just remember the more they try to climb up on their high horse the more they show their ass.
I'm so very sorry for your loss and everything that's been going on in your life.
I am so sorry for everything you are going through. You are a strong woman and I admire you greatly. I would hug you if I could.