My little Vincent
I shared in R&R a while back but never came here to share.
You are an incredibly strong woman. Your son is very lucky that you were chosen to be his mother. I know that it's hard to think of but God has a plan for you and everything happens for a reason. Maybe your reason is to inspire others with your strength or to show your husbands true colors? Nobody really knows but I do know that I will pray for you.
First I want to let you know I am praying for you and Vincent and secondly I want you to know miracles happen
My friend when she was 28 weeks pregnant they discovered abnormalities on ultrasound (she had high bp so she got them every couple weeks) that led to testing and a devastating diagnosis and prognosis her son has a chromosonal abnormality and his organs some are in the wrong place or rotated, has two spleens, the doctors told her he was incompatible with life and advised her to abort well she choose not to.
She knew he might not survive in utero or birth or make it out of the nicu. She would be great for you to talk to even though it's completely different diagnosis.
Her little man is almost 2 now. He has issues but he is a happy baby. I know it's not the same syndrome but might help if you follow some mommies stories
She has a Facebook page here is the link ссылка
I really just want to hug you! (Not in a creepy way) but with my sons diagnosis, though there is hope with his condition, I somewhat understand the hurt that comes along with possibly not bringing a baby home that you've grown to love. You have a beautiful spirit to allow him the chance to meet you in this world ❤️ again, I know it's a little different but I promise I wish I could just just give you a hug and take away all the pain and worry.
I'm so sorry you are going through this. I'm praying for you and your little one. We received news that our specialist believes our daughter has ARPKD. I have been an emotional roller coaster as well. Hang in there and know that God has the final say so in your little guy's diagnosis.
I'm so sorry :( you are such an amazing, strong momma to go through this. Your little boy loves you to the moon and back, I'm sure he knows you're doing everything you can to love him & care for him. It's okay if you don't ever feel prepared....you do what you need to and take it one day at a time. We're all here for you and wish you & your baby boy the best!
Thank you ladies.
I thought Vincent was going to be my earth angel. Everything was going so well. When I passed 18 weeks my stress went down, because that is when I lost his big brother 10 years ago. We struggled to conceive after that and also had two early miscarriages.
Vincent was a surprise. I was told after many failed fertility treatments that ivf was our only option, in 2013. I was also on birth control for pcos when he was conceived.
After I give birth and am allowed to try again I may be seeing my RE and using a sperm donor. Vincent's father thought that after 13yrs, 10 of those married, he'd go and cheat during my 7th week. He's currently living with the tramp. She knew he was married and that I was pregnant and still chose to sleep with him.
I am dating someone at the moment. He's a few years younger, but has shown more maturity and support than my soon to be ex husband. We've been hanging out for a couple months but it became more serious a month ago.
I'm so sorry to hear. It's so beautiful that you decided to continue with the pregnancy and enjoy his amazing movements inside of u. I kind of know how you feel as my baby has a clubbed left foot but I have refused to do an amniocentesis and also want to wait and see how thing turn out when baby arrives. Dr's expect he may have downs syndrome due to short femurs but I take it day by day and also enjoy every day I have with him. I do wish you all the best. You're a strong mamma keep it up!!
So sorry you are going through this, I can't imagine how you are feeling right now. You are so brave and selfless to let him stay until term and he is ready to be born. Sending prayers your way, stay strong and try to enjoy the time that you have with him while he is still kicking away at you.
So sorry you are going through this, but your little boy will be perfect no matter what. I want to personally tell you that you are a strong woman and even a stronger mother for your little boy. Enjoy every little kick, that is his way of telling you he loves you and thanking you for being the best mommy ever.
I don't think there is any preparing for what is expected to happen, let yourself do whatever you need to. There is no right or wrong way to deal with this. We are here whenever you need support or just a place to let your feelings out. I wish nothing but the best for you & your baby.
Thinking about you and Vincent tonight. I can't even begin to imagine what you're going through, not only with the diagnosis for your precious baby, but also your marriage. I'm so sorry! ?