Monica O Toole
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Monica O Toole

Pregnancy after still birth

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My first son was stillborn In dec 2012 (40+11) due to medical neglect!

We're just about to turn 34weeks got our c-section scheduled for 39... And I'm starting to get very very nervous and scared but we are strong and will get through it, I mean what can be better after all we have been through than holding our screaming little rainbows :)!

Good luck, I'm sure everything will be just fine with this baby and birth but its pretty normal to feel the way your feeling :) xxx

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My first was stillborn at 40wks1day due to a complete placental abruption, it took 3 years and two early losses before we conceived this little miracle. Needless to say I'm definitely scared, I just try to remind myself that every pregnancy is different and we are doing everything in our power to get this baby girl here safely. Praying for each of us to have comfort and reassurance ♡

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Thank you ladies and so sorry to hear that this has happened to you. I also feel jealousy over the excitement other women share when pregnant. Up to now, I was just going with the flow. One day at a time. I think for self protective purposes, I developed very little connection with this pregnancy ( which also makes it hard) and now That im getting closer and closer, Im starting to freak out about the end. We never found out what happened. Best guess is cord accident where my daughter must of sat on the cord bc there were no knots and it wasnt wrapped arounf here and there was nothing else wrong. I also have frequent appointments, currently twice per week for nst and ultrasounds but for some reason im still starting to get worked up more amd more. All the best to us all!!!!

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I lost my daughter to stillbirth at 39 weeks in October 2012. Our sweet Grace had tied her cord into a tight knot, but was perfect and healthy otherwise. Wrapping our minds around the loss has been difficult. We'd tried to conceive her for over a year, and are already both 30, so although we were terrified, we knew that we needed to start trying again quickly. Our doctor made us wait six months and then started me on Clomid. I conceived after 5 cycles on Clomid and am expecting our son in April. We lost Grace in a matter of minutes, and there's nothing I could have done to change it. I feel powerless to protect our son, and try to keep myself from feeling constantly terrified. I feel jealousy for all the women who get pregnant so easily and never know the heartbreak of loss. What has helped me a little is having a close relationship with my OB and High Risk Specialist. I have lots of ultrasounds, an at-home Doppler, and will be induced early. I still feel utterly powerless, but am starting to feel hopeful. You're further along than I am, and I'm certain that my anxiety level will rise as the weeks tick by. Good luck to us both!

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My first baby was stillborn due to a cord accident at 38 weeks. Just take it easy and enjoy the rest of your pregnancy. What will be will be and all you can do is the BEST you can. Eat right, rest and drink lots of water. Also do your kick counts. If they are ever too infrequent or much less than what you are used to, go to your OB. ♥

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