My father in law tried to pull that. I think they're still not very accepting of the fact they're having a second grandbaby. Get over it guys! lol he saw our sono pic and said baby is so cramped in there! You're not giving them enough room! Your too skinny and need to make some more room in there! Uh, they don't call it fetal position for nothing Ok. Because I have control over that!

I’d rather someone comment on how small/tiny I am then say something along the lines of, “are you having twins?” Or assuming I’m further along than I am. It could be worse. But yes, it’s annoying that people say anything at all in my opinion haha.

Same @jenvali- I take it as a compliment :) if someone says wow! You are huge! Or wow! Look at that belly, one would be offended as well. I’m sure you look great:) we all carry different.

I’m getting the opposite. They don’t believe I’m 19 weeks, they think I’m farther. Peoples response to a pregnant about our weight should be “you look amazing” that’s it! I always tell pregnant women you look amazing and I bet your ready huh. That’s it. Those I don’t mind being told to me. I have this one customer I swear she called me fat but being professional, I just said have a good day and avoid her every time she comes in ??

I’m fed up too but people are saying opposite to me. Omg your huge for 17 weeks and it’s only your first!!

Or how about people stop thinking they have a right to comment on your body and even touch your body just because you're pregnant? I don't need people (both people I know and strangers) to comment on my size on a daily basis just because I'm growing a life. I don't do it to others. Definitely not what I signed up for. ??‍♀️

Pregnancy is emotional enough with all the hormones. And it doesn't help my eating disorder when people feel entitled to constantly comment on my body. I'm struggling enough internally. It's not that hard to just *think* before you speak.

I think the real problem with society is that people believe they can say and do whatever they please and they just expect people to put up with it. It's not that hard to be mature, considerate, respectful, and professional. And if it is hard for someone to be those things, then they need to grow up and seek opportunities for personal growth and development.

My children will be raised to be respectful, considerate, and treat others how they want to be treated. I sincerely hope others are raising their children to do the same.

If you’re too big *offended* too little *offended* Our society is sad, really.

People love to talk...SMH

With my first, I was pregnant with my sister (4 weeks apart). When we were together I was told I looked huge and ask if I was sure it wants twins and how much smaller my sister was. We had a joint baby shower and we did the guess the belly size with string. At the end we compared belly strings and we were literally the exact same size! People were shocked ?

Every mama carries differently and looks can be deceiving

I was told I looked small and my belly was small and I was totally ok with it lol I’m so scared I’m going to be so big because I already feel so big. Husband is 6’5 and I’m 5’1 and my daughter was born at 37 weeks and was a bit over 6 pounds so I don’t know if I can push a 8/9 pound baby haha.

Everyone is definitely different with how they take what people say and with all the hormones I agree it’s always best to just say “you look great” and leave it at that

I was told how great and small I looked this weekend at my sister’s baby shower. I loved it! I’m not putting on weight the same as last time. No complaints here.

I went into labour with my son at 36w5days. The day before that I had taken a belly picture, and I can't even believe how tiny it was. Whenever I show people, they don't believe that I went into labour the next day! Some people just don't get very big ??‍♀️

People did this my entire pregnancy with my son. It drove me nuts! People even told me my stomach was so small that my baby probably wasn't growing and they told me to check with my doctor. Who does that?!

The comments have already started this time around as well. "Oh you're so tiny!" It makes me so mad. Just shut up people! Everyone carries differently. I'm 5'2 and 105 lbs and my doctor told me I just carry further into my back.

The only thing you should ever say to a pregnant woman is, "You look great and your bump is perfect." It's very simple actually.

OMG heilwife that’s TERRIBLE!!!!!!!

^How rude! Sorry you had to deal with that. I would never comment on a woman’s size.

I feel like I was uncomfortable in a similar way. This is my first and I was around 14 weeks on st. Pattys day, which is my husband's bday. We went out and some random stranger lady heard us talking to our friends about me being pregnant and out of nowhere..."you're pregnant? I wouldn't have guessed. Probably because you are just fat pregnant" I naturally had a face of horror and she explains, "like realistically I would just guess you are fat not pregnant, but you're sure you're pregnant?" I couldn't believe it! I said yes I am thank you and asked if she ever had children and she said not biologically and I thought well no wonder, because any lady who had been wouldn't say something like that I would hope!!

I'm not big either. I just look big in the stomach like I've ate too much. I haven't told anyone so I haven't gotten any comments on the size but I can see how that can be annoying