I rarely get up to do it now. The only reason why I did it the other day was because I couldn't sleep and had nothing else better to do. Most days he just buys something apparently.

I keep my sleepy butt in bed snoozing lol ?

Wow talk about having a second child. My dh alarms goes off at 4:30 every morning. I have maybe gotten woken up by it twice. But I also stay up later to clean the house and get everything ready for the next day. I do the same as you. Pack left overs for lunch the next day. All he has to do is put it in his lunch box. But there are times he will get cranky and complain how I didn't make him a sandwich. So I told him He can stay up cleaning and I'll make his sandwitch. He picked making his own sandwich.

On a side note, his alarm going off three times would drive me nuts.

He better be glad he is your man Bc that wouldn't fly in my house hold!!

If he can set his alarm to go to WORK then he can get up and fix his own lunch.

Sounds more like he needs mommy to fix his sack lunch and drop him off at day care. ??

I'll make DH's lunch te night before. Either pack up leftovers or make a sandwich but I'm not getting out of bed to do. I do it as a curtesy, and if he needs something he's a big boy and knows how to make himself food.

This is why I'm teaching all 3 kids to be independent and how to take care of themselves. I don't want to saddle some poor girl (or guy) with a spouse who thinks they must be waited on hand and foot. SS is 4 but we still give him chores, even ds at a year and a half is putting toys away and working on feeding himself.

Tell your SO that the only people being catered to as if they are helpless are the kids. Unless he's completely incapacitated, he can make his own food.

I never understood why grown men can't pack their own lunches. My DH is grown and can do it himself. I have issues packing for myself let alone another person who is picky.

I do sometimes throw in some fruit snacks if I think of it

Everyone already said what I was going to say. I completely agree with the fact that he's not in fact an adult, but another child.

You must have 2 kids. Your son & your husband cause that makes no sense. He's a grown man that is more than capable of taking care of himself. Sleep on OP, sleep on

Girl you're already doing too much. You make the meal, set it aside AND cut it?! He can fix and pack his own lunch what is he 2? I think he's old enough to use utensils and the microwave. Don't feel bad but stop enabling him to be a giant child.

He's a big boy. He can do up his own lunch.

He is a grown man. He can fix his own lunch. And if he doesn't, tough s*** for him, he needs to take responsibility for his own needs.

Your not the bad person. Your husband is just lazy, sounds like he can take care of himself but refuses to lol.

Sorry, if he's a grown man and goes all day with just eating junk that's his problem. You've told him that if he wants you to help to wake you up, he doesn't. That's on him.

Is he 4? If not, he can be a big boy and heat up his own food. If not, he can starve.