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Why the heck dont people show excitement for a 2nd baby in the family, a rainbow baby at that? It really bothers me. This baby is just as important as my first, we had a mmc in November, and so this baby is so wanted and we are so excited..and I need the support and excitement because I have had a lot of anxiety these first 12 weeks... but no one seems to care or ask how many weeks I am, or how I'm feeling, or anything. Why is that? I always ask my friends how they are because every baby should be celebrated, if its your first or 100th. Rant over. I just feel like no one cares and it kinda hurts.
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I'm sorry y'all are experiencing this too!! I'm excited for all of yalls babies too!
I'm in the same boat! It our 3rd and with my 2nd it was the same they didn't seem to care. With this one my in laws were even mad for a while. To top it off my sister in law is pregnant with her 1st and due a little over a week after me. Everyone is over joyed and excited for her. Then I say something and they change the subject. Also I just found out it will be our 3rd boy and my mil has already said she didn't want me to have a girl that my sil will and I can just have "another" boy. ? it's so rude. But thank goodness for my mother and husbands cousin! They have been wonderful to me even when my own sisters haven't called or texted.
Congrats on your new one and us girls in the December group are excited and happy for y'all!!!
Wow yall! I didnt realize how I'm not alone in this and its so comforting! We can be eachothers support system!!
Thank y'all! I seriously think that if you choose to have 40 kids, people should be happy for each other and for each time. Aren't we supposed to love and edify!?
I may express how the support would be needed. I'm gonna talk to hubby about it first! But seriously I guess it only matters if we are happy, which we are!
I'm having my third child and all I get is, "really, why? Congrats."
I still haven't told my husbands sisters or much of my family. Reaction is certainly different, but we are thrilled.
If you need the support, I would be vocal about it. If your loved ones know you need more from them, I'm sure they will make more of an effort.
Congrats on your rainbow:)
Summerns, that sucks so much. Id be so upset if my hubby didn't seem excited!! When are y'all going to announce?! I hope everyone surprises you with excitement!!! If you ever need to talk, feel free to private message me!!
You aren't alone. We haven't announced yet but I have a strong feeling our family will not be excited for our second either. Heck, even my SO seems to not give a flip about this one, which really upsets me. He hasn't asked how I'm feeling, hasn't asked to hear the hb on the Doppler, he didn't even ask how my first appointment went or when my next one is. I feel completely alone with this one and it hurts. Last night I looked over at him and excitedly said "guess what babe!? Tomorrow starts the second trimester, Im a third of the way there and we should know the gender in a couple weeks! " and his response was "cool" and then he rolled over. I've cried several nights because I fear I will be the only one happy and excited for this baby. The only thing that has been keeping me up is that my best friend is due 2 months before me and we are excited to have babies so close in age. If it werent for her constantly checking in on me and talking about how they will play together and be best friends like us, Im sure Id be a complete wreck right now.
Summerbaby! Yes! I feel so much more excited about this one because we know what to expect!
Sadly tbough, no one seemed excited about the one we lost. They were all like yay..all over again. Lol. My parents are stoked but my in-laws not so much. But I may be wrong! But considering what I went through, the support would be incredible!
I can honestly say maybe it's because they're scared. I'm sure with your second pregnancy that ended in a mmc was traumatic to them also. Some ppl don't want to be over emotional with the rainbow bbys bkus they don't want to cause stress bkus of the Wat ifs and the possible outcomes. Give them time to heal and have understandings to knowing that your fine.. im terrified to tell my family bkus they may be over emotional calling me everyday checking on me and the bby will over stress me.. I'm sure they're ecstatic they just don't want you to feel stressed
So sorry to hear you aren't getting any support. We have the same story. I had a healthy baby and then a miscarriage last November. I'm so excited about this baby and I hope when we announce others are too. I honestly feel more excited about this pregnancy than with my first because I know how precious and sometimes short, life can be.
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
So Thursday is the day where my husband is getting his sperm checked out to see if we are able to have a baby i hope we can because its been almost two years and its been awhile since we had sex because i just be so down because we cant have a baby and it will be his first
I had some woman on here follow me then asked if we could talk. asked how far along I was, I told her then asked what kind of phone I had I told her asked why then she asked for my number.... I told her as nicely as I could that "I don't know you, so no" it was weird and creepy! I don't mind talking to people on here but just to be so forward like that has me suspicious of her intentions. Am I being to paranoid or would you do the same?! lol...
Ladies why do men ask how many men we been with ? Do you answer this question? If so how
I find it pretty hilarious how people who have shown their true colors on social media snake away, delete the posts that outed them and come back on social media like nothing happened. Why do that, you outed yourself, so stay out. We still see you boo boo...
That sucks ?. Its so insensitive of people