update
So back in November I found out at 12 weeks that I lost my baby. I ended up needing emergency surgery because the miscarriage caused me to hemmorhage..
I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase? I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say... Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
deleted-user·
Hope it's positive!! Praying for you!
deleted-user·
I didn't get my bfp this time till I was three days past af being due. I'm now 7 weeks and lines are as dark as they're gonna get lol. I hope this is it for you!
Backer·
Thanks yall!
Forthischild: thats very encouraging! Thank you!! I wonder why theyre late to show bfp?!
Ill update again when on test in a couple days!
deleted-user·
I'm not sure! Maybe because of late ovulation. I didn't track mine last month so I'm not exactly sure when I conceived but I have a pretty good idea because we only BD'd a few times. Did you track ovulation this time? It could have taken longer to implant. But this is the first pregnancy I didn't get an early bfp and it's my fourth pregnancy so I was surprised.
Backer·
I didnt track either! I think it was late too, maybe 17 days ago. We weren't supposed to try til the 2 month mark but I had to and am so excited! Ill be more excited when that line gets darker!!!!
deleted-user·
Yes! Maybe wait a couple days and see if it gets darker! I took like two or three a day until my line got darker than the control ?
Backer·
I'm gonna try to hold out til Sunday to test but that's gonna be hard!!!! Haha! Then ill take another tuesday, and might buy another set and keep taking them
deleted-user·
Haha it's so hard! That's why I bought a ton of internet cheapies, so I could test when I want ? it just made me feel better since my last two miscarriages my lines didn't darken up like normal.
Backer·
My frer is the only one thats picked up a line so far, so I'm praying they darken, and then next week I'm buying out all of walmarts 88c tests!!
deleted-user·
Yeah frers are supposed to be the most sensitive I think. But if you give it a few days it should show up on the cheap ones too ? keep us updated!
Backer·
I will! Thank you!
Backer·
I have no self control. I tested this morning and it didn't get darker yet (less than 24 hours after initial test). I dont think I've prayed as hard for a healthy pregnancy /baby than I have right now. ?????
deleted-user·
But there is still a line right? Hcg needs 48-72 hours to double
Backer·
Yes, I took 2 and both showed up a light line!
I have a headache and thats always my first trimester symptom!
Thank you!
Backer·
I just had a chemical pregnancy. Gosh I thought this was my rainbow
deleted-user·
Oh no! ?? I'm so sorry. I just got on here to see if you'd posted an update. Definitely not what I was hoping for. I'm really sorry ?
Backer·
I'm really bummed. Especially when my friend had found out shes pregnant the day after I fot a positive result. Maybe its all a fluke and this is judt a weird start to pregnancy but thats mr being super optimistic!! If not, on to next month! God will bless us with another healthy baby and pregnancy one day!
deleted-user·
Perhaps it's just implantation bleeding or something. Either way, I hope you're able to have a healthy pregnancy soon ❤ praying for you!
Backer·
Thank you!! I appreciate it! I am wondering that too. I guess time will tell!!