SS Card
So... I let the hospital order the SS Card so I didn't have to after having the baby. Well. It's yet to arrive. I called SS office and they were less than helpful. Now I'm trying to not stress. That's a bad document to get lost in the mail!
I also did the same as you and of course it "never came" but apparently it did come! So I assumed it was never sent so I went to my local SS office to apply for one. The SS office let me know that he already had a number and I needed to get a new one card. They also said if there is no knowledge of a person with that name living in your household the mailman will not leave it in the mailbox do to it being a federal document. So they had me write out his name and "waiting for a federal document" on a piece of paper and tape it to the inside of the box.
@snuffy, you would think that they would be proactive. Like an of us have time to stand in line at SS office with a baby. Mine eats every hour. When I went after i got married, I literally waited 3 hours. I'm praying so hard it comes in.
The same thing happened to me! I requested it at the hospital so it would be mailed to me but I never received it. I went in to the ss office and a number had been issued, which they could give me (fortunately, since I needed it for insurance), but I needed all this documentation to get the actual card. Super annoying, since it should have just come in the mail without any documents on my end.
Thank you! I'm hoping it gets resolved too. If it doesn't come within the 2 week mark, I'll call the hospital too. According to obline, NC is the worst about getting stuff out
I got her birth certificate. I had to actually order that one myself. My paperwork said it could take up to 4 months, but she'll be 4 months in 2 weeks. All of my friends received theirs within a week. Definitely will be calling back, perhaps tomorrow, because this is ridiculous. And really. Who has time to drive 40 minutes away to SS office that's in a really bad part of town... not me. Lol
Nope. It was the most unproductive phone call I've made. Basically she said if it didn't come in then I'd need to go to the SS office and get it. I told her my concern was it being lost in the mail. She seemed less than worried.
I wanted her to track it but she didn't even try. I may call the Raleigh office instead of rhe Charlotte office.
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄
Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, to...
I dont think I could be more stressed...How do you get either one if you have neither and the dmv says you have to have a ss card for an ID and social security says you have to have a picture ID for your ss card!? Im about done with this shit... The government is fucked up in so many ways its unreal...
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
weird things we do
Lol ok so i have a tilted uterus i believe that has a factor on concieving. So lifting my legs or bum never seem to help.. i have tried laying in different positions. This month i have decided to lay half way off the bed basically an assisted hand stand. Have any of you tried this? I feel like it will work better lifting up my lazy @ss uterus!
Smart amazing mommies out here I have a smart question for you all so I wanna get a credit card and I only have chase accounts so I'll have no idea what banks out there are good any other banks you would recommend for me ? What is an apple card ? Is that a bank card ?
Ugh. I guess I really am going to have to go up there. I don't want to because it's in a really really bad part of town but it looks like I may have to. So so annoying.