@shayy just block her. Seriously, if she wants to keep b*tching, she can go see a therapist. You’re not getting paid to listen to a drama mama, it ain’t worth it lol
I mean does the bf mom have a point? Is she really pregnant? At this point it hasn't been confirmed by a doctor and she is basically refusing to do anything to see one.
I’ve gotten to the point where people who take this much energy need the boot. I have a family and I need to be here for them. Not irritated bc someone is blowing up my phone w her probs
Some people just can’t be helped! You know you tried and there is nothing else you can do. “You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make them drink”
Honestly, it sounds like she’s just trying to throw a pitty party for herself but you coming up for solutions is ruining her party lol I would just stop talking to her. Her negativity is only going to bring you down.
@oliver, i agree. I was just kind of sitting there after the whole not doing anything to prevent being kicked out like, you won't even do it for the child you already have.
deleted-user·
Had 'friend's like that. They just drain you. I dropped mine.
deleted-user·
Here ya go, hope this helps:
https://supportfree.textnow.com/hc/en-us/articles/204431989-How-To-Block-And-Unblock-Phone-Calls-Or-Text-Messages?mobile_site=true
Shay·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Textnow
lol
deleted-user·
If you don’t mind my asking, what app do you use?
Shay·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I haven't responded because it's always contradictory crap. I'd block it if I could but I use an app to text
deleted-user·
@shayy just block her. Seriously, if she wants to keep b*tching, she can go see a therapist. You’re not getting paid to listen to a drama mama, it ain’t worth it lol
Shay·
Мама двоих (младенец)
She messaged me again today with the drama. Like, I don't care dude.
deleted-user·
Oh ok. Hopefully she will come to her senses and be an adult do what she knows she needs to do. You have done plenty for her she just wants to be lazy
Shay·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mims, I guess it was ' confirmed' when she went to the e.r. that she was 6 weeks along. It's been 8w since then.
She did send me a dark picture of a positive test.
deleted-user·
I mean does the bf mom have a point? Is she really pregnant? At this point it hasn't been confirmed by a doctor and she is basically refusing to do anything to see one.
deleted-user·
I’ve gotten to the point where people who take this much energy need the boot. I have a family and I need to be here for them. Not irritated bc someone is blowing up my phone w her probs
Shay·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Atleast I can say I tried as y'all have said. I'm just gonna leave it at what it is.
Shay·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@diary, yes. But in this case the horse is surrounded by water ?
Shay·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@ocean probably, because that's one of the only 2 things she'll message me about and I just don't reply after my attempt to help now.
deleted-user·
Gahh people like that are so annoying, it’s pointless to try and help her. You might as well sit back and just smile and nod.
deleted-user·
Can’t help someone who won’t help them selves
deleted-user·
Some people just can’t be helped! You know you tried and there is nothing else you can do. “You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make them drink”
deleted-user·
Honestly, it sounds like she’s just trying to throw a pitty party for herself but you coming up for solutions is ruining her party lol I would just stop talking to her. Her negativity is only going to bring you down.
Shay·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@oliver, i agree. I was just kind of sitting there after the whole not doing anything to prevent being kicked out like, you won't even do it for the child you already have.
deleted-user·
Sometimes it’s best just to move on. Doesn’t sound like she gives a shat.
Shay·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@alex, I'm starting to ignore her texts. Like I've tried my best but you won't budge at all.
deleted-user·
Just stop even making suggestions. Just shrug and say "that sucks, hope you figure it out."
I'd be so annoyed and I'd tell her straight up to quit her whining. She really does need to figure things out on her own
Shay·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Glitch