im embarrassed
I'm embarrassed of my extra skin... I know that giving birth is an amazing thing and I should be proud that I have two healthy kids. And I know the extra fat will Go away but what about the extra skin. I had a vbac this time around and was definitely not prepared for this postpartum body.... I just wanna feel pretty, and comfortable in my own skin but right now..... I'm really lacking self esteem and confidence because of my pooch .... It hangs over so much more than after my first... I know I'm not ugly or fat but I definitely don't feel beautiful right now and it's taking it till on me emotionally. Just a rant for the day.. I don't wanna bother my husband with silly things like this cuz he always tells me how pretty I am and Is so supportive but no matter what he tell me I still feel down inside :/
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It's only been 2 weeks. I know it'll take time. Just the difference in your body between a vaginal birth and a C-section were more different than I thought
How long has it been? My deflated twin belly was frightening at first, but I'm comfortable in my skin now. It took several weeks for things to get back together. Once I was cleared to exercise, I walked with them everyday. I also did exercises for diastasis recti every time I prepared their bottles. It takes time to heal. Don't be too hard on yourself!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I really really hate the fact that I got stretch marks on my boobs. And it kinda bothers me when mommas tell me they are something to be proud of because it's my baby tattoos or my proof I was growing a miracle...I'm pretty sure once my son is in this world with me HE will be the proof I grew a miracle inside me. I know they try to make me feel better about it but there really is nothing beautiful about stretch marks! No matter how you put it.
Overall whats everyones thoughts on this. Me personally I dont mind lgbt .but to teach it I feel like is a waste . I can teach my own children that if they ask or even wanna know
Modesty- Where did it go?
There is too much sexy going on! I was incredibly guilty of it in my younger days, too. But as I get older and look at pictures that women are proud of I actually get embarrassed for them. What happened to old fashioned modesty? I change clothes if my v neck t-shirt shows too much! I know my younger self would be laughing at me right now, but I have definitely changed my perspective as I have gotten older and become a mom! Does anyone else feel this way or have I just ...
I think it depends how much you have but I've heard that you can get it removed and donated to a burn center for free if you qualify? S.O has a friend who dropped 300 lbs and is apparently doing that.