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koshadillz
Amber Strader·Мама двоих (7 лет, 10 лет)
Aggggghhhhh!!!

How do I get my 3 year old to stop peeing his pants!!!!!! I'm so irritated and frustrated, and I can't even express it because then he'll know I'm upset. I've stayed calm with him and told him that we have accidents but we need to try to go on the potty, I've rewarded him for going, and I encourage him to go. He understands where to pee fully well. We've been potty training for 4 months and he just wont stop having accidents every single day!! What am I supposed to do?! I just can't get him to tell me he has to go, so I take him frequently, and he'll go but other times he won't and then still pees his pants. Someone help me before I give up please. Idk what I'm doing wrong. Is it normal for them to have accidents everyday after months of potty training?
21.10.2017

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I would try a different approach, if you've been trying to potty train since you conceived with no progress it really doesn't sound like he's ready. I thought ds was ready he showed the "signs" at 3 we tried and he basically done the same as your son did. We'd encourage him all the time but he went without us pushing it a few months after turning 4, there was no training when he started he always just went on his own and no accidents since.
He's 4.5 now
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Surely being able to pee whenever at school, then being told something totally different at home is where the problem lies.
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We had multiple potties all over the house. No running, no begging them to hold it, made life so much easier.

It concerns me the teachers are putting him in diapers-that could negatively impact the training you're doing. If they're putting them on him during the day, they probably aren't checking him and taking him to the potty.
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koshadillz
Amber Strader·Мама двоих (7 лет, 10 лет)
@ razzle my son hates being naked. But the play area idea is great! I didn't ever think of that
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No pants works pretty well too. Putting the potty in their play environment so no traveling is necessary also helps.
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koshadillz
Amber Strader·Мама двоих (7 лет, 10 лет)
I will try every 30 minutes and see if that helps. We usually go every hour so maybe shortening that time will help
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Hum I wonder if the change in his class could have caused it. If u want to keep
Trying then do as pp suggested and take him every 30 mins to go potty. Good luck
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Maybe at home set an alarm every 30 min and take him to the bathroom. Maybe after a few days of that it will help.
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koshadillz
Amber Strader·Мама двоих (7 лет, 10 лет)
Oh no. His dad and I have been separated since he was just six months old. And all I can think of as far as a change is when he switched from his twos room at daycare to the three year old room. They weren't as attentive in there and the teachers they have really don't seem to be good with the kids. I kept getting him from them in diapers! Not even pullups. Other than that someone mentioned to me it's because I'm pregnant. But we started potty training after I conceived. So why would the pregnancy affect him now?
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Was there a major change when he started to regress? Was it around the time u two separated?
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koshadillz
Amber Strader·Мама двоих (7 лет, 10 лет)
Well that's the hard part @pp. He was showing all signs of being ready at first. He was waking up dry, and was telling me when he had accidents, was excited to use the potty and would go. And for a while we didn't have any accidents except for night time. But then after about almost 2 months everything changed and he just regressed. I was going to put him back in pullups but I didn't think that was fair to him since he was doing so good for so long. It also doesn't help that his father would fight and argue with me about putting him back in pullups which would mean that he'd be in pullups at my house(I have custody) but regular underwear at his dad's every other weekend.
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Doesn’t really sound like he’s ready to potty train just yet. It shouldn’t take that long once he’s ready. I say give it a rest for a little while. My 3 year old son isn’t ready yet and I’m not going to push him because it’s just harder on everyone that way
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koshadillz
Amber Strader·Мама двоих (7 лет, 10 лет)
Only at night. We use big boy underwear during the day.
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Is he still in pullups?
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