my son hates me....
I feel like my son hates me. He's 3 and about 3 weeks ago he started telling me he wants his daddy. Whom has visitation on the first, third and fifth weekend of every month. I was happy he wanted to see his daddy and that they're building a bond. But now he hates me. He tell me he doesn't like me and that he likes daddy, and that he doesn't like Mommy's house. All he talks about is his dad(which I don't mind) but I do mind him telling me how much he dislikes me. I love my son more than the world itself and I try to be the best I can be for him, but for some reason he just doesn't like me anymore. For example, we went to the zoo today and walked the entire zoo. And once we got in the car I asked if he had fun with Mommy and he said no. Then after he woke up from a nap on the ride home the first thing out of his mouth is that,"he can't see mommy and that he doesn't want mommy house" . I don't know what to Do. It's breaking my heart. No matter what I try and do for him(within reason) to make him like me, he just doesn't..... Is it just me or is it because hes a toddler? I read online that toddlers have a hard time being attached to more than one person. But my son LOVES his nanny, and grandma, and daddy. Everyone but me.... Sorry if the post is everywhere but I'm just at such a loss..
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His father is a very abusive person. Both physically and mentally.. I've had numerous restraining orders on him protecting my son and myself. And after many many times of him violating those and going to jail numerous times. We finally went to family court and I fought for custody and he was awarded time with our son. So we get along ok on the surface but he literally scares the shat out of me otherwise. So our relationship is ok as of right now as long as he and I just act like the past never happened
I also agree with pp. How is your relationship with his dad? At his age, the things his daddy says about you would have a big impression on him. My little sister went through a similar stage around 3-4 when my dad was telling her things to make her feel ill to my mom... I hope that is not the case for your DS!! It is always awful when the parents use the kiddos against the other parent.
That could be. His dad wasn't involved for a while and I think he feels like making up for his time by giving my son everything he wants
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
Just so mad at my husband before we moved he promised he would put our son to bed at night and get him his bottle. Then promised that on the mornings he doesn't work or the ones he works later he would feed him breakfast so I can have my relax time before having him all day long. Then every morning he is here he says he's not going to get him breakfast because he doesn't want to and sits there telling me to go make and feed our son breakfast. Then every time I remind him of his promise he rolls ...
So my boyfriend just said he don't want to be with because his mom doesn't like me !
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
I agree with the women here, I think its a phase and perhaps something dad is trying to convince him of, especially talking about not liking your house, that sounds like something being told to him. Just know he does love you and will get passed this keep your head up