Help me stop crying
4 years ago I found out my husband was cheating on me. We got divorced. I knew the girl. She came to my house and took pictures of my family at my daughter's 1st birthday party while she was f*** ing my husband. Haven't seen her since I found out and kicked him out.
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I am so sorry you are going through this. I hope things get better for you. I want to compliment you on acting like an adult and being civil for your daughter's sake. You said he was having an emotional affair while talking to this new girl... it's only a matter of time before he does her dirty too, and she finds out. Just sit back and let karma unravel.
Sweetie I'm sure what you're feeling will get better with time. And just so you know what looks shines and pretty on the outside usually isn't on the inside. Don't feel like she stole your family. She took the nightmare that could have been your future. Because he will do it her too. Or she will do it him. How you start a relationship is usually how it will end. And even if he attempted to be faithful. She will never be able to fully relax and trust him. Because she knows what he is capable of. Focus on your life instead of theirs and I promise everything will work just fine hun.
He was also having an emotional affair with another woman at the same time as their affair. I have screenshots. I can't tell you how much the petty vengeful side of me want to send them to her.
But I'm going to continue to restrain myself. Maybe they'll get married. And someday she'll find something. And be destroyed the way I was. Is it bad that part of me hopes that is the case? I just want her to go through exactly what I did. Or for them to break up so she's out of my life. I'll take either one. ??♀️
A relationship started on lies and infidelity will most likely end the same way! If he will do it WITH her, he will do it TO her and the same goes for her. I'm so sorry you had to see them and feel badly but just know you got the only good thing out of him (your children) and you are so much better off without him.
Ok. It's time for me to stop being the pyscho sitting in her car crying while cute children in their dance costumes keep walking by. Thank god for big sunglasses and the box of tissues always in my car. Pulling myself together to drive away.
Thanks for the support mamas. ?
I just wish it wasn't her. Like if he had moved on and started dating someone else it would be different. But the fact that it's her just rips my heart out.
And it's not like I want him back. I wouldn't take him back if he came crawling on his knees through the mud crying what a mistake he made. There is nothing in the world he could do to get me back. He's only with her because I kicked him out. They're only together because I threw him out like the trash that he is.
But it's part of this situation I hadn't had to deal with until just now. And it's hard. And I'm just typing all this to work through my emotions. So forgive me for rambling.
The worst part is I actually liked her before the affair. But the two of them had such a disregard for me as a human being. They had zero respect for me. Watching her with my daughter sucks. I have gotten used to dealing with him. Dealing with her is gonna take time.
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