Whenever I go on lunch dates with my husband (before we had the girls and even after we had our girls) we always walked holding hands and were all lovey dovey... you should see us saying goodbye before he gets on his car and I get on mine. People would think we are cheating...but in reality we just love to kiss and hug before going our way.

Is he gay?

Facebook stalking is fun. ? some folks out way too much online and don't even make it friend only. Lol. Anytime I'm bored I can read myself a novel from some folks. Snoop snoop snoop.

Lol CRA, maybe she has a facebook I can look at for confirmation...

I don't give close intimate looking hugs to friends. Regardless, she may be cheating or could have an open relationship. Maybe it was her husband. This is when you spy lol

Oh, and I can't rule out close friend, but she and her husband are Eastern European immigrants and all their family is there. So it wasn't a relative.

Oooooo. ??

Scandalous!

Oh, come on ladies! I'm trying to spice things up in here! ?

Besides, I know she had a profile on an online dating site at one point, because I saw it. So that (in addition to the body language I saw) is why I assume this was not a close friend.

I mean you really never know- some people have very touchy-feely families. Either way. It doesn't matter

My best friend and I do this. And I'm married to a different man. Hugging and arms wrapped around each other isn't cheating. We even kiss each other on the cheek. ? not a big deal to me.

I am leaving it alone. Just sharing.

And the body language was not a family member, lol.

Maybe a family member or close friend. Or maybe your other coworker was wrong and it is her husband. Not a big deal. She wasn't making out with some random dude, I'd leave it alone. None of your business

Yeah you don't know her story. Maybe she recently separated from her husband.

Or her husband is a controlling manipulating abuser ??‍♀️