Thank you ladies. Talked to my attorney this morning and they are drafting the paperwork.

Unfortunately the emails I got from him yesterday (though not outright evil like usual) were manipulative and angered me so I'm done trying to talk to him civily and will let things play out in court.

Of course I won't tell him that until after my vacation so he doesn't take back the switch out of spite.

My MRI is in a couple hours. I'm trying to stay calm.

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO YOUR NEW LIFE!!!!

You are a strong woman and momma! You keep your head high and stay strong! Lil' Miss was the best thing to come from that relationship and now he is just her father....you are well on your way to the new you and are a total rock star!!! You have had so many positive changes in the last year and you are continuing to grow and find out what kind of panda you really are!!!

Here for you my friend!! Hugs for support!

Tomorrow is my ex fiancees birthday. :(

I left him because of abuse but it's still hard. Idk why.

You're really strong. I've followed your story, and you're really one of the bbers that I look up to.

You give me a lot of hope.

I attended a hearing before my divorce was final and my ex didn't show. The judge signed the papers and I jumped and squealed Yay! He laughed and walked out. Lol sorry random. Stay strong good luck!

Yesterday marked one week for me since my fiancé left. :\

I have a longgggg long road ahead of me.

Stay strong and hope the divorce goes as smooth as possible.

You are so strong, everyday it will get easier.

I didn't know about your story when it was first happening, but I will admit I was lurking at your older posts a couple of months ago to figure out what you were talking about. I'm so sorry that you've been through what you have.

It will be a slow painful healing process, but you will be healing.

I'm glad he's stopped being a douche for the moment, that doesn't help anything if he adds that to the mix.

Well, anyways just wanted to stop in and say that you've been very strong dealing with all of this, and you always have support from R&R :)

Mama love - it feels like forever ago AND just yesterday, lol. Probably bc I remember it all so clearly.

Kvonq - yes, so far he stopped being a douche (for the moment at least). We'll see how long it lasts.

craziness! Can't believe its been a year. I know closing this chapter of your life has got to be hard but you known what they say about one door closing and a bunch more opening.

A year already?! Wow! It probably feels like an eternity to you, but it seems like last month I was reading the post about it all! You are one hell of a trooper. Have a nice glass of wine tonight and relax. You deserve it after this insane past year you've had!

Just know there is happiness after divorce

Ahh yes i do remember that. Sorry life is sucking momma. I totally feel you on that. Mine has been sh!t too. You seem to have some awesome supporters here though. That's always a plus.

Lol it was last week or so. Not a big deal I just fell apart bc my shower was broken and I might need shoulder surgery. Oh and my yard is infested with yellow jackets and I'm allergic. Two people have tried to get rid of them for me and they just seem to multiply. And my ex and I got in a big fight. It was just all too much at once. I'm better. I just felt like a fool using a plumber like a therapist lol. He was really nice though.

I can't believe it's been a year already! You are so strong and so positive. It's truly an inspiration!

It sounds familiar.... but not sure. I would stalk your posts but i can't seem to figure out how to anymore with the update.. bb just isn't the same.

Hi mrsbliss! You must have missed me crying to the plumber lmao.

Panda. Its been a while! Sorry to hear all of this but from what I've seen of you in here you are strong! Message me if you ever need to talk!

I have my moments when I lose it, believe me. Lol. But I've made a lot of positive changes lately that have helped.

Big hugs sweetie. I know this must seem bitter sweet.....or maybe just bitter but now you can finally move on with your life

I'm mostly a lurker but I remember you and your story. You are an inspiration to all the ladies here who are dealing with cheating, showing that it is possible to move on and be happy and that it's hard but it does get better. Good luck going forward!

It's been a year wow it seems like yesterday was reading your post about it. I'm sorry, you have come so far though your a strong women. Cheers to a new year and a fresh beginning. You deserve it.