Thanks ladies. I can't say enough how much all the support I've received from bb has helped through all of this.

I've never seen a woman handle a situation like this with as much grace maturity and composure as you have

If anyone deserves peace in life it is those like you that do what's right even when life is truly unfair

I know the future will be much brighter for you considering the way you have handled everything thrown your way, hang in there you have a lot of good coming your way

Hang in there girl! My heart goes out to you cause that just sucks! But its his loss, not yours & you will come out a stronger & wiser person! :)

{{{{{hugs}}}}}

So you're going through this.

Hugs panda. :-(

Thanks for the recap; yes, well done.

I just needed to vent. I can't handle the run down every time I post. Though I realize it doesn't make sense to those who don't know the backstory. So I apologize for that.

I know its likely the motion he filed will be dismissed without a trial, but the closer I get to the court date the more and more I'm freaking out. I'm trying my best not to give him the power to hurt me anymore. But it's impossible. The best I can do is not let him know its working.

He's a narcissist. He cares only about himself. It's as if the 10 years we were together didn't happen, I'm just the enemy, but yet he uses all the personal info he has about me to push just the right buttons to make me melt down.

And I just found out about things (through things posted to the public on the internet) that happened while we were married that I didn't know about. And I find myself wondering who it was I was married to. Certainly not the man I thought he was. A con artist. And a manipulator. Everything was a lie. My whole life was a lie.

It's very difficult to stay positive. I'm dealing with a lot of depression and anxiety because of this. I've been to the dr and will be in counseling soon.

As always, thank you for all the support. I think I'm going to try to get some sleep.

I've been following your story and it's heart breaking. I truly hope you find the manliest of mans with a big huge heart just for you. And a 6 pack.

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Keep a positive outlook. Keep moving forward with your life. It sucks, I'm very sorry i know how heartbreaking being cheated on can feel. But things will get better and you will one day find yourself with somebody who loves you and respects you.

you want me to whoop his ass?

ill follow him on the street and just start whacking him with my flip flop. i'll say he was trying to rob me.

Thanks baby. It just seems like I keep going downhill further and further.

We go to court a week from today for his 2nd attempt at changing the visitation order.

If you are getting a divorce because he cheated on you, it sounds like you will be in a better place soon!

The nightmare is that it happened. And I have to deal with this lying cheating narcissist because he's my daughters father.

I'm getting divorced. He cheated on me.

What's going on love?

If its that miserable then its best to change your predicament. You're under no obligation to live a nightmare life.

Is he abusive or distant or simply not the one for you?

Is he a bad father or just has different parenting styles/views than you?