When I usually don't like something but don't want to say I don't, I say "hm, that's interesting." I think they still get I don't like it though lol but I can't think of anything else to say!
I said "imagine" at the beginning of my story, to reverse the situation and help people understand my problem ?
I'm french the lady was American on a forum and asking opinions on a name. When people asked her where she found it, she said it was a french name! And it's when I jumped in ? got it now?!
Sorry if my english isn't perfect I'm still learning!
Eta @mama no it was something else but if I say what, it will be too easy for people to find it? but it was some ugly and weird gardening tool
I told her (almost word for word) that it was an interesting name, that I had never heard it in my country, but that it might be given as a name somewhere else. And that here it meant "weird object name"
And she just said (nicely) that I was wrong and that it was in fact a french name...
I would want that person to extend me the courtesy of saying 'hey, that's not really a common name and is in fact an inanimate object used for such and such'.
She probably thinks it sounds cool she may not be paying attention to what it is. I would tell her what a napkin is. I would want to know if a name I like meant something that is a everyday object....
And if it was someone on a forum asking for opinions. (The name wasn't napkin but another "daily life random and not glamorous" object)
Eta: and how would you react if you had picked a very unique and weird foreign names and someone from the country was telling you it meant doorknob or something??
"Hmmm, I like it! (Lie) But I'm American and I've never heard it used for a name... Only for the cloth you use at supper. But it's nice and unique! (Lie)"
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Well then, she's just a bit crazy! ?
Cami Ssende·
@Laebel I know ? and the way she just told me " I don't know where you're from but "napkin" is actually a french name for boys, was priceless
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I'm french. A napkin is a napkin. Nothing more. Not a name. Not even a pet name. Not even a popular name for a dog. And I'm into weird names, so... ??
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When I usually don't like something but don't want to say I don't, I say "hm, that's interesting." I think they still get I don't like it though lol but I can't think of anything else to say!
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Cami, you should pm me. I'm really curious what gardening tool, since the only ones I can think of are shovel and hoe. ?
Cami Ssende·
Oh those are great american names @planet ??I might steal them
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Haha ok I get it now! Your English was great that's why I thought she was being crazy
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That sucks cause I'm super curious what every day object it is.
I don't know if any objects that have names even remotely interesting enough to name a child after.
Cami Ssende·
Hi @nursefire you seem like a nice one ?
I said "imagine" at the beginning of my story, to reverse the situation and help people understand my problem ?
I'm french the lady was American on a forum and asking opinions on a name. When people asked her where she found it, she said it was a french name! And it's when I jumped in ? got it now?!
Sorry if my english isn't perfect I'm still learning!
Eta @mama no it was something else but if I say what, it will be too easy for people to find it? but it was some ugly and weird gardening tool
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Okay French name
So was the name napkin or something else?
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So first it was an American name and then it was a French name?
Let the crazy lady be
Cami Ssende·
Well @bmoss ? no-one wanted to tell you anything and I hate to be the one breaking it to you but.....
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Are you telling me I have been wrong about what a napkin was my entire life? ??
Cami Ssende·
I told her (almost word for word) that it was an interesting name, that I had never heard it in my country, but that it might be given as a name somewhere else. And that here it meant "weird object name"
And she just said (nicely) that I was wrong and that it was in fact a french name...
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I was just thinking the SAME thing @serena!!
I would want that person to extend me the courtesy of saying 'hey, that's not really a common name and is in fact an inanimate object used for such and such'.
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Serenas beat me to the Michael Jackson comment ?
I'd probably be straight forward with her about it lol
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She probably thinks it sounds cool she may not be paying attention to what it is. I would tell her what a napkin is. I would want to know if a name I like meant something that is a everyday object....
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I personally would make a different choice based on the information that the name really means something else.
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I would ask her if she knew what a napkin was. If she was aware then what else can I say?
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Same thing being truthful about what a napkin really is isn't saying hey that's a ----- name.
It's saying hey I only know napkin as a cloth used at meal times
If said mom wants to name her child that more power to her it's not my kid and I will never have to deal with the outcome
This also applies to any other objects
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Poor kid
Cami Ssende·
And if it was someone on a forum asking for opinions. (The name wasn't napkin but another "daily life random and not glamorous" object)
Eta: and how would you react if you had picked a very unique and weird foreign names and someone from the country was telling you it meant doorknob or something??
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I'm going to let her know what a napkin is.
It's not an American name and she may make another choice knowing what it really means
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I would say...
"Hmmm, I like it! (Lie) But I'm American and I've never heard it used for a name... Only for the cloth you use at supper. But it's nice and unique! (Lie)"
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I don't think I could bring myself to say anything.