" he's a great father tho"
" But im a SAHM so he takes care of me & the kids"
? I can't stand those I'm sorry but I can't like get your ass out of that relationship & get yourself a good job or 2 jobs & work your ass off for the next couple years & get his ass on some child support & make his ass Take care of the kids
I knew someone who had a romantic and very physical relationship with their 2nd cousin. Both their parents were thrilled with the arrangement ?
@Aaron I agree with your comment because I'm that type of friend as well..but to an extent. I feel that as a friend it is my duty to give you the best advice in truth as possible. Yes I will have your back but there are other options. Now I know it's up to a person's willing mind to be done with someone but when there's children involved, physical violence etc I'm sorry I will tell you what was done was wrong and right now that situation is not best for either of you. Now whether she takes that advice or "if" she's not telling the whole truth I agree that's on her but I will do my part as a friend and let you know what is on my heart to say. I'm definitely compassionate but I will also be truthful.
Loved your comment though?
Honestly I have never told someone to leave there so. I have seen people go thru some crazy sh** and still make it work. But you never know the whole story. Most people especially pregnant hormonal people put extras on a situation. To make them seem like the victim and so everyone will be on there side. And everyone just gose straight to leave him ,take the kids, take all the money call the police. And when they don't it's because the story was not as bad as they made it seem.
Plus some people are not ready to change there situation. You have to be mentally and emotionally to leave and turn your whole life upside down. So I try not to get involved. If someone wants to talk and say 50 time I'm done I'm leaving. And never do it it up to them it's there life. And I will still be there the next 50 times there done and need someone to talk to.
Omg ??