Husband Rave!! My husband woke up thismorning and hugged me real big and told me he had a dream where we weren’t…

? I’m not sure I’m understanding the sass on this post ? just wanted to share a good moment. ?

@Jelly ?? I read 2 words scrolled and gave up lmao

You should learn to paraphrase @canadian no one has time for all that.

You def hit the jack pot with that one

@Cana my husband is the same way! Literally treats me like I can’t touch the ground when I’m pregnant! He loves being able to care for me because he says when I’m not pregnant then I am very independent and he doesn’t get to baby me as much lol.

We wanted to have 4-5 kids, but with this pregnancy I developed a blood clot the whole length of my left leg so the Dr suggested this be our last, since I’m high risk now.

Your relationship sounds very balanced and respecting to me! ♥️

?Haha no I don’t use a reward system, I don’t agree with that he’s not a dog ?

There’s no brownie point in my relationship, but something so endearing and sweet like what ops husband said and did would make me want to be all over him, we both are like that, if he wants sex he is more then welcome to it, if I’m not exactly in the mood I know it would only take a few seconds for him to get me on the mood ... and vice versa theirs times he wasn’t exactly in the mood but it only took a few seconds of me knowing exactly what i was doing to get him to forget everything and come after me ??

It’s all done in play and neither one of us was against it just more if you can get me in the mood I’m game kinda thing.. it’s the thrill of the hunt ?..

We both know when the other person doesn’t want it and we both respect that and wouldn’t ask or even hint at sex,

Yes there’s times we are stressed, sick or I had a baby, or im going through 17 weeks of “morning” 24/7 sickness where I can’t sit up for 30 seconds let alone anything else that he didn’t even suggest or imply sex, he’s not a sex crazed animal he does love taking me but he also just loves to touch or have physical contact with me, it’s the touch he wants or intently staring at me, it’s the physical closeness that we both love...

Sex is secondary.. it’s the connection and bond we crave...

No he doesn’t need or even think of things to get sex, I definitely don’t reward him with sex, at least that I can ever recall...

When I read ops post I just knew that I wouldn’t be able to keep my hands off of my husband for saying something amazing like that, it would be an instant turn on for me...

I guess I just assumed everyone is like me and my husband, but I can definitely see that’s not the case now ?

Op I know what you mean I just feel so damn sexy, my confidence is absolutely through the roof, this is our second and sadly going to be our last, it was my decision if it were up to my husband he’d keep me pregnant and we’d have like 20 kids ???

But pregnancy is extremely hard on me and I’m not up to round 3 which he completely understands and supports, at the same time he’s really sad, he absolutely loves kids and he’s an EXTREMELY hands on dad, he’s been really worried about me this pregnancy it’s worse then my last pregnancy which is saying something cause that was really rough, so he’s really worried about me, I got scolded just yesterday for bending over to pick up a toy ?

He keeps telling me I can’t bend over or pick things up, don’t carry the glass of milk just ask him to do it all for me... ? it’s just hard for me to ask him silly small things like that, especially when he just got comfy on the couch, but he jumps up the second he sees me bend over to grab my blanket from the floor or start struggling to get up to get a drink ? it kinda defeats the purpose of doing it myself when he jumps up anyways ??‍♀️

It’s super sweet but at the same time you’d think I was on my deathbed instead of just pregnant ?

@cana do you use an award system with your husband? Seems like he does so much because he'll get lucky after every sweet moment. ?

@Cana this is our third haha and definitely agree! The butt smacks/grabs boost my confidence at this point lol

Plus at 6m pregnant it might be a chore ??

Exactly what tipsy said.

Definitely not a chore. I just wouldn’t assume that telling someone about a dream means they get sex ??‍♀️

I’ll give it to dh for less. ?

You guys are acting like sex is a chore ?

And to only be given when he goes to the moon and back ?

If my husband woke up and acted and said all that he’d be getting very lucky..

Op we’ve been married 17 yrs and are still in the “honeymoon” phase ? so I completely hear you op, people are completely sick of us all lovey

Like you guys are married you should be over this by now, can’t you be away from each other for half a day without texting ??

I’m so happy for you op, I’m 31 weeks and my husband can’t keep his hands off of me, not just for sex reasons but just that love and physical contact, I can’t walk by without his hands on me and if I’m not close enough for that his eyes are intently on me.. ? he is normally like that but when I’m pregnant it goes into over drive , makes me feel like a sexy fertility goddess ?

Ps congratulations on the baby, is this your first?? Do you know what your having??

I’m very happy for the both of you, you two sound absolutely perfect for each other ❤️?

He probably had the dream because he got lucky last night ???

He is a sweet guy, we’ve been in the “honey moon” faze for 7 years ?

People get sick of us because we are too “cutesy”

I was definitely blessed with my hubby

Dang if my husband knew he only had to tell me about his dreams in order to get sex, I’d never hear about anything else ?

Really @pp Sex for a dream that he can’t control? Lol

That’s sweet and all but....

Ahhhh I hope he got lucky for that ?

That's so sweet