Merina VS. Ortho Evra
Iv don't minimal research on both, and I actually have an appointment in 6 weeks to get the IUD put in. But now I'm leaning more on the contraceptive patch.
I had mirena and it gave me nothing but problems. In the end I ended up removing it. I became extremely depressed and had suicidal thoughts. I read that many women are starting to report suicidal thoughts and depression with the mirena. As soon as I removed it, I started feeling better. I don't recommend it. If you don't have insurance it's about 700 dollars.
I had the mirena for almost a year. I liked it. Didn't really gain any weight. I did still have a period, but it was very regular. I liked it because I've always had problems with birth control and all the extra hormones- they give me migraines. When the Dr took it out they said it was kind of crooked, but it obviously still did it's job lol. Only downside is I bleed/ more spotted for 4-6 weeks after. Getting it in and taking it out is really painful too, but it lasts like a minute then it's done.
So I talked to Hubs and it sounds like safe sex (condoms and no sex during fertile days) for 5 months and then I'll start the patch. I'm over pumping now so I hope to have a good supply incase I dry out
I used the patch and it was great because it was effective (never got pregnant!) But I stopped using it because it irritated my skin and every time I pulled one off my skin was left bleeding. I have somewhat sensitive skin sp maybe that isn't common.
I used it for about about a year (8 years ago)
I had the mirena for 6 months and it was the worst 6 months of my life.
- constant cramping in my stomach and left leg
- irritability
- anxiety
- extreme fatigue
- mood swings
- painful sex for both so and myself
- bled the entire 6 months
- weight gain
- loss of appetite
And worst of all severe depression. I started having thoughts of harming, even killing myself and others. One night my son was crying and I just stared blankly at him thinking "I could just put him in the back room and I'd never hear him cry.. I could sleep all night". I got it removed the next day and felt a million times better within minutes.
I never had issues with depression so it was very scary for me. My doctor kept telling me it was just ppd and it would go away but I knew something wasnt right.
I know it works for some people, but to me it isn't worth the risk. I wouldn't suggest it to my worst enemy.
I had the iud and it was great, a little pain when it was placed, then some light cramping. Then after a few days it was fine. I got pregnant on the patch and gained some weight. I hated it. I would say iud, after almost two years I didn't have periods every month, maybe once every six months. Then after the third year I didn't have a period until it was removed. I never had any problems with it moving, or anything I would get it again but I'm getting my tubes tied. No more babies for me lol
I've had both. This is my second week on the patch and I like it so far. My so noticed my boobs got bigger and so did I. Lol I switched from the paragard because I've always had cramps all over my body and lost a lot of hair.
Hopefully now my hair will grow thicker. Also TMI but I noticed down there that I smell better. I'm not sure how to explain it, I didn't have a horrible smell before with the iud. But it just smells better/no odor.
I like the patch so far
I got the iud 6 weeks after having my now 2 year old and I loved it for the first 14 months. I never once had a period but around 14 months I started bleeding and it made me nervous that it wasn't working any more. So I made an appointment to have it removed they didn't do a pregnancy test two weeks later I found out I was pregnant. We thought I was 6 weeks when I finally got to see my dr but when I miscarried the baby it turned out I was closer to 9 or 10 weeks. I will NEVER get the iud again.
I hated my mirena. It was 8 months of my personal hell.
I gained 30 pounds, my milk was non existent the week after I put it in, I had horrible cramping, husband could feel it and my periods were all throughout the month. I didn't stop bleeding the entire month. One week of heavy bleeding and then sporadic spotting every three weeks.
Well sounds like I'm just not gonna have sex for a year ?
When I got it, I was on PA select plan (insurance for women) and was able to get it for free. (9 yrs ago)
Sry I can't help more :(
Edit-It felt like bad period cramping when they put it in and for maybe the next day as far as I can remember. Other than that I couldn't feel it at all!
2nd edit-I would get it again.
@2nd did your insurance help pay for it? How much did it cost (if you don't mind)
How painful was it?
@Mama Oh no?! I didn't know that ? yes I am strictly breastfeeding and that's VERY important to me
That helps a lot. I was worried about the possibility of it getting stuck in the cervix, so that answered that question.
I used the patch never used the iud. I liked the patch because it helped regulate my monthly and balanced my hormones better than a pill or the depo shot. I personally did not gain any weight while on it and did not have any side effect that i did not like. Hope this helps a little.
I've only had my mirena for about 4 months now but I love it. No complaints at all except that my nipples get a little tender around ovulation.