Last weekend my husband wanted to go out for his birthday. His mom was going to watch baby until midnight, the longest I have ever been away from him, not mention I would be coming straight from work, husband would drop him off before we met, AND I wouldn't be putting him to bed....I know it's only one night but I totally get where you're coming from. I only get two days a week off that are all about baby and I hated that I would be cutting into that time. We ended up having a nice time but I checked my phone so much it stared to annoy my husband. If you do go without baby, enjoy it! Yes, he's only small for so long but really, how many times, especially as of late, have you been able to spend with only your husband?

It's only a few hours. Enjoy some alone time.

Personally I would go for the date night alone with just your husband! It's important to have that time just the two of you!