Every time my doc checks my cervix I tense up so much I think she gets frustrated with me like today…

I don’t blame you that shit hurts and it’s not like they’re being gentle 🤷🏽‍♀️

@dangthatsjustinsmama, exactly she just shoved her whole fist in me without a warning

@krystaljanae, girl I left that office ready to fight lol they asked me if I wanted to check this week and I was like NOPE

@dangthatsjustinsmama, lol they don’t even give me an option

@krystaljanae, you can always say no but it’s almost time you probably want to know

It hurts so bad i dont blame you

I tense also! I dread appointments now lol.

My doc was always super gentle, I don't remember any of my exams/checks that hurt, uncomfortable yes, but not painful. I almost wonder if its because my doc was a man, all these horror stories seem to be with female docs 😂. He was always so nice too.

I tensed up too. My doctor, who was a man, was very understanding, gentle, apologetic and informative the entire time which made a necessary appointment go by faster. Is your dr a woman? Sounds like a bitch and she has no reason to get visibly frustrated with you especially when most all other women find the exams/check up uncomfortable in some way. Don’t let that dr make you feel any type of way. You’re not alone

@inkedsouthernbelle, yes she’s a woman maybe I should’ve gotten a male doctor 🤦🏽‍♀️

@leroydoom, I should’ve choose a make doctor instead lol

@krystaljanae, from mine and my friends experience...men are more compassionate because they’re empathetic to you as a woman and they don’t actually know what it’s like to be a woman but can understand on a medical level. Women are more bitchy, impatient and unsympathetic because they’re women too and you’re not different than them so “lay down, quit moaning and crying” lol it’s awful but that’s so many women’s experiences with same sex doctors