So I know I've been very very quiet on here and hardly even posting or even coming on here just been dealing with alot and some of you know that my ex just left couple months ago... well couple days ago he message saying he wants to try again sort things. I don't know what to do my head has been a mess it's very hard choice.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Ladies I need advice I am so stressed out and so upset. My mans ex is giving out his number to strange men and telling them to pretend that they know me and they text my man nasty things and say that I know them and that they had sex with me but I don’t know anyone from this area since I just moved here a couple of months ago. I am at loss and so afraid that he’s gonna leave me I keep breaking down..
I’ve seen a couple posts about Panera on here, and I’ve always been curious if it’s good or not... so I think I might just try it!!
Hi I am into my 15 week now But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though What should i do i am very confused Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
Chloe McMahon ·
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@muslimmom_x Definitely 100 Percent On My Terms Xxx
Sarahleeds·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (14 нед.)
@chloemcmahon96 I understand Hun just have a good think take Ur time and take it as slow as u want just don't let him come back moving in ect within weeks cause that's when they no they can do anything and be took back talking from experience with my ex when I was young 19 so not too young but I learnt from my mistakes and that made me the strong women I am today I met Mr right have a fantastic life and the best partner I could ask for u gave him the best gift ever a child he should treat u like a princess one thing I learnt is never settle for second best were worth more xx
Chloe McMahon ·
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@sara87 I'm about 15 mins from centre in goose green... and I just don't know what to do at the min it's very very hard to just let go and say no I don't want to cos I love him very very much and do miss him at times but everything would need to change xxxx
Chloe McMahon ·
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@luvmybabypeaxx I would be scared of him leaving he can't tell me he won't loads of times won't stop me thinking it. But what I also got to think of is am I gonna spend rest of my life saying what if... What if I didn't give it another go would I regret it. I just don't know got alot to think about I wouldn't just welcome him back into my life with open arms it will take alot to make things right xxx
Sarahleeds·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (14 нед.)
Me personally I couldn't risk him walking out on me n r child again as it has a massive effect on u and the baby especially if it's. Over little arguments as u said in another post me n my partner bicker most of time over crap but if he ever left it would be for good cause I no me n r children would deserve better but it's totally up to u and how strong emotionally u r it's Ur life and Ur decision good luck Hun xx
Sara·
Мама дочки (1 год)
Just noticed u r from Wigan I'm in city centre xxx
Sara·
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That y then he wants to come he dnt like it at his mum's he doesn't have any where else to go to except you.... Take it easy hun n don't rush... Some men's out there like to fool us women even after being a mother xxxxx
Chloe McMahon ·
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@sara87 I thought the same that he just wants to come back cos he's sick at it at his mum's but I told him he can't move back in for long time if you want to make it work and he's willing to do anything so I just don't know at the min it's very hard xx
Chloe McMahon ·
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@stephiijones123 yeah he is the father to my little girl and we spilt up because he thought we was better if we weren't together and it would be easier and he didn't like the small argument but he said he wants to try again and make things better x
Sara·
Мама дочки (1 год)
Once they leave hun they will do it again may be now he is frustrated u no in what... dnt get me in the wrong seriously I have heard a lot about them mens if u think he won't do it again or u have feeling he will then honestly no point. U have may be got use to it dealing everything alone since your last post saying he has left you but of course it's your decision all the best xxx
Natalie ·
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@chloemcmahon96 I don't know hun. Maybe don't actually start dating just yet....start off slow. See each other less then before. See how your feeling towards him. And you have your little girl to think about. If he made a mistake before and realised now that he wants to try again. Then good on him. Most men don't tend to go back. Sounds like he want to make an effort and try again. And you could be happier then ever second time around but take your time and don't rush it. X
Steph Jones·
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Arhh, poor thing. Is he he father of your baby? Why did u break up? Do u think its because he was scared when baby was born? Only u can make that decision, just follow ur heart x
Chloe McMahon ·
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@natalie2255 I was thinking the same start of dating again and just see. I'm just scared he'll leave again and I just don't think I could handle it again but I don't know there's alot to consider and to think about xxx
Natalie ·
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Aww hun it can't be easy. And only you'd know what to do. Do you think it's a good idea? Do you still have feelings for him? Is it worth it? Or will he break your heart again. You have a lot to consider. It's a hard situation to be in. Maybe start of slow and see how it goes. X