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Has anybody started their leave sooner than they said ? Because at this point it wouldn’t do me or my job any good by…

Has anybody started their leave sooner than they said ? Because at this point it wouldn’t do me or my job any good by having me there

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cali-girl09

QuanaBooМама сына (3 года), беременна (36 нед.)

@kira18 thanks im going to talk to my doctor about that next month when i have him

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chakira

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@cali-girl09 FMLA is family medical leave act. It just guarantees your job for up to a year when you have to take off work for medical reasons. Your dr will fill out the paperwork saying how long u need to be out under FMLA. I got 8 weeks for maternity leave plus the 4 extra weeks from the "bonding time" that was offered.

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cali-girl09

QuanaBooМама сына (3 года), беременна (36 нед.)

@kira18 soo how does fnla work because ima have to ask for this when i have my LO

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cali-girl09

QuanaBooМама сына (3 года), беременна (36 нед.)

@dangthatsjustinsmama no nothing medically just because my job wouldnt comply with the light duty note and i was getting a little bit weak here and there

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mamachey

MamacheyМама четверых детей, беременна

@dangthatsjustinsmama, lol jump the border come to Canada !!

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chakira

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If you're going out on FMLA you can also ask for the "new mother bonding time" (I think that's what it's called). It gives you 4 more weeks out. I didn't know about it. The lady who filed my claim told me about it and asked if I wanted it

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dangthatsjustinsmama

Keio В ожидании первенца

@mumstasin, I agree. I was just thinking who’s going to take care of him when it’s time for me to work again 🙄 I don’t trust anyone

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mumstasin

SindyМама двоих (младенец)

@dangthatsjustinsmama, it should be at least a year in my opinion. All the other countries are doing it. Babies need us for sure the most the first year

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dangthatsjustinsmama

Keio В ожидании первенца

@cali-girl09, did you have anything medically causing that or they just decided?

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cali-girl09

QuanaBooМама сына (3 года), беременна (36 нед.)

Me i went wayyyy sooner i was planning at 37 weeks and my doctor ended up doing my papers for disability when i was 30weeks

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dangthatsjustinsmama

Keio В ожидании первенца

@mamacheybb, I obviously need to relocate lol

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mamachey

MamacheyМама четверых детей, беременна

Here we get 12-18 mths depending if you take your leave so many people start their leave a few mths before they give birth

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kambam

kammyМама сына (1 год)

I meant the disability pay. You get that right? But yeah if you leave early you go back earlier.

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dangthatsjustinsmama

Keio В ожидании первенца

@mumstasin, I know ! This system is so stupid. There should be 6 weeks after they’re born regardless of what happened during the pregnancy

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mumstasin

SindyМама двоих (младенец)

You can go when you know your tired. The only thing that sucks is that from that day the 6 weeks start counting. And if you give birth until 40 weeks that means you only spend 2 weeks with a newborn

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dangthatsjustinsmama

Keio В ожидании первенца

@kambam Well there weren’t any benefits lol I just get to keep my job. Walmart barely has full time people. I’ll call tomorrow and see what happens

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kambam

kammyМама сына (1 год)

I mean 38

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kambam

kammyМама сына (1 год)

Lmao that's unfortunate. Yeah mine said 36w. You can still leave I think? Just can't claim the benefit until 36

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dangthatsjustinsmama

Keio В ожидании первенца

@kambam, is that what you filled out on your papers? Because I was full of energy when I did it so I said 38 weeks 🙄 but ehhh

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kambam

kammyМама сына (1 год)

I left at 36w

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