My situation is that I slept with my ex and got pregnant because he snuck and removed the condom. The morning after pill failed. ANYWAY because I was very single and had been for over a year, I was getting to know guys. Speaking to them over the phone, not actually seeing them. With me just finding out I’m pregnant, how and when should I break it to these guys that I’m preggo?
And before we get into shaming me. I hadn’t had sex for a long time. I’m a grown a** woman who had needs. I felt comfortable with my ex. As for me dating / getting to know men .... don’t act like you don’t know how that goes. 🙄
Thanks lol
@mybabybear, don’t want a relationship with them now that this happened ... not anytime soon
Are you looking for a serious relationship? Do you think this is the best time for that? Do you want a relationship because you're lonely and want companionship? Not judging, just curious. Be very honest and include what exactly you're looking for.
@rayalove, well just tell him it was an accident and that you don’t want your ex. If it’s meant to be, it will be. If he judges you then he wasn’t worth it
@rowdy-vajazzy, not really too serious with either one. I started by wanting to take things really slow.. 😕
@amberspringer, true ... yeah there’s one I’m starting to like. Neither of them have kids. And I wouldn’t want to give extra baggage. I wanna get it over with and just tell them so they can just leave me alone if they want to ... one of the I just met after I slept with my ex. And the other we’ve been speaking since January ... he’s the one I’m scared to tell because I don’t want him judging me
Are you getting serious with any of them? I would probably stop talking to the guys you don’t have a connection with and then just tell the most serious, if you have those feelings. I would probably tell ASAP.
I'd say, honestly is the best policy, tell them immediately.
Is there one you like? If so, just find out how he would feel if you were. Then tell him. But you might as well come out and tell them. It would hurt to get to know them and fall for one then get hurt when they found out and weren’t okay with it. Better to rip off the bandaid and save yourself possible heart break
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Ladies I need advice I am so stressed out and so upset. My mans ex is giving out his number to strange men and telling them to pretend that they know me and they text my man nasty things and say that I know them and that they had sex with me but I don’t know anyone from this area since I just moved here a couple of months ago. I am at loss and so afraid that he’s gonna leave me I keep breaking down..

Me and my princess first time getting epidural and I’m numb from legs is this normal i can’t walk good yet

The response I got from letting my landlord know this is the second mouse I’ve had in my apartment in a couple weeks.
That last sentence really rubbed me wrong. For one, I have a clean apartment, I don’t leave food out. Two, it’s fall so mice are looking for warmth, they’re not coming into my apartment because it’s ‘dirty’. Three, I don’t believe that it’s a “first for this building”. Ugh this whole email just made me feel like she thinks I don’t clean or something.
Maybe I’m over reacting. I...
Just be open with them, you may be surprise by there reaction.