My situation is that I slept with my ex and got pregnant because he snuck and removed the condom. The morning after pill failed. ANYWAY because I was very single and had been for over a year, I was getting to know guys. Speaking to them over the phone, not actually seeing them. With me just finding out I’m pregnant, how and when should I break it to these guys that I’m preggo?
And before we get into shaming me. I hadn’t had sex for a long time. I’m a grown a** woman who had needs. I felt comfortable with my ex. As for me dating / getting to know men .... don’t act like you don’t know how that goes. 🙄
Thanks lol
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@mybabybear, don’t want a relationship with them now that this happened ... not anytime soon
Are you looking for a serious relationship? Do you think this is the best time for that? Do you want a relationship because you're lonely and want companionship? Not judging, just curious. Be very honest and include what exactly you're looking for.
@rayalove, well just tell him it was an accident and that you don’t want your ex. If it’s meant to be, it will be. If he judges you then he wasn’t worth it
@rowdy-vajazzy, not really too serious with either one. I started by wanting to take things really slow.. 😕
@amberspringer, true ... yeah there’s one I’m starting to like. Neither of them have kids. And I wouldn’t want to give extra baggage. I wanna get it over with and just tell them so they can just leave me alone if they want to ... one of the I just met after I slept with my ex. And the other we’ve been speaking since January ... he’s the one I’m scared to tell because I don’t want him judging me
Are you getting serious with any of them? I would probably stop talking to the guys you don’t have a connection with and then just tell the most serious, if you have those feelings. I would probably tell ASAP.
I'd say, honestly is the best policy, tell them immediately.
Is there one you like? If so, just find out how he would feel if you were. Then tell him. But you might as well come out and tell them. It would hurt to get to know them and fall for one then get hurt when they found out and weren’t okay with it. Better to rip off the bandaid and save yourself possible heart break
Just be open with them, you may be surprise by there reaction.