Well thats the other half and his dad gone out to the pub yet again leaving me with grace Am i wrong for moaning? I dont…

@dannielle1996, I’m not really girly girl either lol but I do do my nails at times lol. Ah that’s good :) xx

@x-t-x im not really a girly girl i dont know when the last time i actually had my nails done but im trying to un wind while shes in bed xx

@dannielle1996, lol bless ya anytime hun. Now while Grace is asleep try and have a lil you time. Just switch off for a lil bit, that’s what I do while lil mans asleep, I just watch something on Netflix or workout (great mood booster lol) or do my nails etc xx

@x-t-x @melanie-spiritmedium thank you for being there for me to have a moan i appreciate it :) will defo try to fix something before its too late too xx

@dannielle1996, hopefully all goes well hun xx

@x-t-x yeah defo xx

It’s still worth a try hun then maybe after you’ve talked or tried talking you’ll have more of a clear view on everything xx

@x-t-x i will try but he will just throw it back in my face x

@dannielle1996, hmm if it was me I’d just say to him if you want this relationship to work then you need to start listening and stop just jumping to the conclusion that I’m moaning,

as this relationship don’t seem to heading in the right direction no more. You both need to talk and sort it out hun xx

@x-t-x its difficult as he always moans after work and then when i ask him to do somthing its a moan and a struggle and ive spoke to him before about it all on how i feel and it goes in one ear and out the other :/ xx

If that’s the case hun it wouldn’t be any different if you weren’t with him xx

Maybe ya need just get him to sit down and just tell him everything and see what he says, maybe if he knew exactly how your feeling he’ll be more helpful and go from there.

In that text he says he’ll stay in while you go out, maybe go out one evening with a mate and just have a bit of you time, even if it’s for half an hour round ya mates having a coffee xx

@x-t-x i do have done since she was born xx

@melanie-spiritmedium they are but as bad as it sounds hes my best friend x

Sounds like your doin it all anyways hun xx

@dannielle1996, It sounds like you’re doing most of it on your own anyway hun most men are like extra baggage lol x

@melanie-spiritmedium i dont think i would be less stressed as i will be doing alot more but on my own xx

@dannielle1996, It sounds like you’re coping now anyway really, you’d just be less stressed xx

@melanie-spiritmedium currently crying 😪

@melanie-spiritmedium i know just dont know if i could cope x

@dannielle1996, She won’t hate you for doing what’s best for you both hun x

@melanie-spiritmedium i keep thinking about it but then what will happen when grace is older she might hate me x

@x-t-x he doesnt do it when shes awake its always when shes in bed or out with my uncle and we end up arguing like mad and then i end up in a state :( x

No one has the right to talk to you like shit, he’s the father of your daughter, where’s the respect! It’s not fair on ya lil girl if she’s hearing him talk to you like either xx

@dannielle1996, There is help out there if you want to end a relationship and get your own place x

But if i leave him i dont have anywhere else to go as i left my home because of neighbours and moved into his dads x

@melanie-spiritmedium i have done for 3 years and he talks to me like shit at points and when i say i had enough but im trying to stay strong and a "family unit" for graces sake xx

@x-t-x, great minds think alike lol x

Again I agree with @melanie-spiritmedium, sorry your literally just sayin what I’m thinking as I’m reading through lol xx

@dannielle1996, why do you put up with it hun? You shouldn’t be treated like that x

@arodriguez32114 its frustrating as hes constantly moaning if i end up having a nap during the day as i get up in the night for grace take her downstairs to sleep with me on the sofa and then he moans x

@melanie-spiritmedium he never done night feeds i done them all and when i ask for a break i get moaned at so i give up asking for time on my own no wonder why im on new antidepressants x

@x-t-x @melanie-spiritmedium read the messages i just posted up x

@dannielle1996, Probably not the best time hun imagine what he’d be like with 2 if he doesn’t do much for 1 x

The cheeky sod! That would infuriate me! I totally agree with @melanie-spiritmedium xx

@melanie-spiritmedium yeah i am but he keeps saying how he wants another one but cant be bothered with grace at points feels like im a single parent x

Sit him down and tell him to grow up or get out! Aren’t you trying for another baby?x

@x-t-x yeah and all he thinks about is im moaning xx

@dannielle1996, I know what ya mean things can feel like their getting on top of you at times, we’ve all been there hun but ya need to try and set a lil you time. Aww hun have ya spoken to him about how ya feeling xx

@x-t-x i would if i could to be honest all i feel like i do is look after grace,cook,clean and where were at his dads i do everything and he keeps moaning when i say "its nice to be offered" he gets all shitty and all i end up putting up with is peppa till i take her to bed feels like i just want to have a break down :( xx

Not wrong for moaning at all and in all honesty it don’t sound like ya moaning to me lol.

Try and spin it around and look on it as while he’s out and bubs is asleep you can concentrate on you and have a bit of you time xx