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Ik this is tmi, but idk where else to vent about this. Every time my husband and I have gotten intimate today, all he…

Ik this is tmi, but idk where else to vent about this. Every time my husband and I have gotten intimate today, all he wants to do is me give him a bj. I don't really enjoy them, I only do it bc he likes them. But like wtf, today of all days he decides to be a selfish asshole. We didnt really do anything except go out to eat for mother's day, which is fine. I mean I don't expect anything fancy. But not once today have I felt especially appreciated in any way, especially not in the bedroom. I already have an issue with feeling like sex is all about him and I never get to feel special. He gets to be a selfish dick every day, but why tf does he choose this one day to try to make the sex all about him... Like that's the one thing he could give me that wouldn't cost any money, and he can't even do that. So now I feel unappreciated and grumpy and am sleeping on the sofa. Happy mother's day to me, I guess 😒

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mfmf

M & M

I think he's taking it as a joke because you're still allowing him to make sex about him. You probably have a weak approach. Don't give it to him and when he asks why, tell him how you feel. Maybe he needs a visual. Show him what you like and tell him that he should help you enjoy being intimate with him. Idk 🤷

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diegosmommy0213

HarmonieМама сына (4 года)

Talk to him about it n let him kno what u like n don’t like I’m sure he will understand

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nicolealison

Nicole Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (31 нед.)

@dashtikalin, have you tried writing a letter or text about your feelings? My husband is like kinda in one ear out the other when I talk but when something is really bothering me I text him and he actually tries because he can’t “ignore” it from than on.

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dashtikalin

Tara18Мама двоих (младенец)

@mfmf I just left when he started trying to get me to do stuff with him. I know that's not the most obvious message to send, but I am not good at being assertive. I try to mention my problems to him but I'm not sure why he doesn't get it. It almost seems like he thinks I'm just joking with him or something.

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mfmf

M & M

Have you mentioned it to him? He's only doing what you allow. Speak up! 📣 How do you have sex with someone that doesn't satisfy you?

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