Ik this is tmi, but idk where else to vent about this. Every time my husband and I have gotten intimate today, all he wants to do is me give him a bj. I don't really enjoy them, I only do it bc he likes them. But like wtf, today of all days he decides to be a selfish asshole. We didnt really do anything except go out to eat for mother's day, which is fine. I mean I don't expect anything fancy. But not once today have I felt especially appreciated in any way, especially not in the bedroom. I already have an issue with feeling like sex is all about him and I never get to feel special. He gets to be a selfish dick every day, but why tf does he choose this one day to try to make the sex all about him... Like that's the one thing he could give me that wouldn't cost any money, and he can't even do that. So now I feel unappreciated and grumpy and am sleeping on the sofa. Happy mother's day to me, I guess 😒