So apparently getting pregnant is a competition in my family... lmfao. My brothers girl friend is on…

Why does it matter though?

My family is like this 🤦🏻‍♀️ when I was pregnant with my daughter who would be the youngest my older cousin got pregnant right after I had her for the same reason 🤦🏻‍♀️ it’s an attention thing for them 🤦🏻‍♀️

@jellybeans33, because she doesn’t take care of them she gets tired of them after a few weeks it’s like I got all the attn now the baby is here it’s not about me. It wouldn’t matter if she took care of them and cared for them.

@dinamarie1995, wow yeah that’s ridiculous then!

@pipelinemama, it’s so sad. Like if you want one have one but don’t have them for the wrong reasons. Don’t get me wrong all babies are blessing. But have one because you really want one and aren’t going to take care of them. And my brothers gf quit her job a few months ago which she made real good money he works part time. Its not smart in my eyes. I know anything can happen at any time but you want to be as prepared as possible with both parents working.

@jellybeans33, right! And she quit her job a few months ago and he works part time. She refuses to work. We both work the same field are jobs are easy and pay really well. Her oldest child she pretty much doesn’t exist to her it’s so sad.

@dinamarie1995, it is because the children suffer from adults need for attention. I can’t comment too much on the working situation because I’m a SAHM but my husband makes a good living and we’re very comfortable but if need be both of us would work to keep things running. That would be like my husband quitting and me not working and trying to stay afloat, money to care for kiddos has to

Come from somewhere.

@pipelinemama, at least you guys are comfortable. They aren’t. That’s what parents do you sacrifice for your kids if you don’t want to work and take care of your kids make sure your able too. Like you guys. They aren’t. I feel so bad for the kids. It’s not fair.

@dinamarie1995, it’s not because they shouldn’t suffer or miss out because of the parents, that’s a huge pet peeve of mine because my other cousin is the same, they have 4 but would rather spend money they done have on alcohol and going out than what the kids need. No kid asks to be born and their needs to be looked over.

@pipelinemama, that breaks my heart!! That’s soooo not fair!! Kids come first no matter WhAt!! 😞

That's how I feel my family is my younger sister is pregnant I guess since I'm older nobody thought I would have another baby. On the side of my husband they already starting having great great grandchildren so my girl is the baby and they aren't happy about I find that weird.

@dinamarie1995, that’s just the tip of the ice burg, their dad doesn’t work, he has another daughter somewhere he’s never seen, he cheated on his wife with my cousin, two of the kids are the same age. The kids sleep on mattresses without sheets, 2 of the 4 kids get treated like crap because “they aren’t related” (ex wife’s kids) it’s just a mess I had to distance myself from them because I couldn’t handle being around it. I feel for all the kids but especially the two that aren’t my cousins.