The awkward moment when you are at your sister in law’s graduation party and you go to change baby’s diaper. You mention what you are going to do and his mentally challenged aunt (who has absolutely no clue what boundaries are) follows you and starts asking about her diapers, comments on baby’s privates and asks if I’m breastfeeding.
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I couldnt imagine having someone like that in my life. Id lose my shit. Maby next time dont announce your gonna go change your baby, just go and do it.
@momzillaof3, I find it weird that anyone tags along for a diaper change unless the person doing the changing appears to need a hand. I was able to stand this aunt until I got pregnant. I never knew she was completely obsessed with babies. I’ll spare the stories of what she’s done since we announced but I’m amazed that she never swung by our house and refuse to leave (I’m not complaining at all though). If I gathered the courage to tell her to fuck off, I don’t think she would understand any part of it and continue with what she is doing. All the relatives would understand my side, but I haven’t figured out how to tell her to back off. Her own grandkids were there (if I remember right, one is about 4 and the other is approaching 3) and she would rather be around the new one. Just awkward, frustrating, hopeless and a few other feelings all at once
I dont let anyone around while im changing my kids besides my husband or sometimes the grandparents. No one else.
No worries I get it now!! I bet it was a bit awkward @emilyinsd,
@ss3mom, I didn’t explain it very well earlier. It was just awkward for me and being a little tired didn’t help things either
Oh ok I see now. Yea I guess I’d be a little uncomfortable then too.
@ss3mom, I should have explained her better. She is a mom herself and her brain just doesn’t click like it should. She isn’t the child in an adults body. I’m not offended by her, I just feel like I can tell her to back off and that she is getting a little to personal for my comfort. And it’s not like I’m introducing her to something new either
@pookiedoo, since she is a mom herself to 2 kids (I believe all babies are precious but she never should have reproduced) I kept my answers as short as possible. She isn’t the mentally challenged where she acts younger than she is, her brain just misfires (best way to describe her)
She’s mentally challenged!! Are U offended by that? Serious question there
So did you offer her appropriate answers?
@momzillaof3, his uncle was holding her and said he thought it needed changed. Otherwise I would have just snuck into the other room