My husbands x wife at the beginning of our relationship had him in and out of court making him pay her spousal support (when they have no kids together). They were married like 3yrs and she was getting $1200 a month in spousal support. After a year of that the judge ordered the spousal support to stop and she started calling my husbands command reaching the general and telling him he had two wife’s. Any one who knows anything about military can probably imagine the ass chewing he got. He had to show proof of his divorce and our marriage certificate and the two restraining orders he already had on her. He got no apologies lol. She would also harass his mother. While she was getting spousal support he was also paying for the home she was living at under my husbands name and every time something broke at the home she filed a court order for him to fix it. It took about $30,000 in Lawyer fees to finally get her out of our lives. It was the well best money spent. I can’t imagine them having kids because I probably would’ve ran for the hills dealing with that crazy woman for 18yrs lol.

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Damn, @raycharles1230, that is crazy! I don’t know why anyone would continue to put themselves through that, given if it’s true. If she is lying, then it has to just be for attention. I can tell why you wouldn’t trust her.

@one.tired.momma, before she told him she had ovarian cancer, she told him she has a hostile uterus which ejects her babies as soon as it can. I guess she has had 13 miscarriages. My thought is why wouldn't she stop! I have an amazingly awesome uterus but I decided three of my own and two step kids was enough so I had my tubes removed last week. She either doesn't care or she likes the attention she gets from it but she is damaging herself going through that and she always tells her 8 and 6 year old kids. Every other month her daughter tells me, oh my moms pregnant again. I'll ask what happened when she was pregnant before and she will say, or that baby died. Wtf!!!

@kaytibug2009, naw I don't think she would. She is a pathological liar I believe. No one in my mans family trusts her or likes her. My man is always trying to keep the peace with her so she won't take his kids. She recently told him she has ovarian cancer but got pregnant before she finished her treatments. She hasn't even told her mom or dad but she had no problem telling her ex. I don't want to not believe her but she is extremely untrustworthy and I believe she has been trying to get me away from my man, her ex.

I deal with my SO’s ex on almost a daily basis. She’s coo coo for sure. She’s always telling me that I live the life she always thought she would have and how beautiful I am. She tells people she and my SO used to be married when they never were, and that I basically stole him from her. She’s called the cops numerous times for no reason, not on me, but other members of my SO’s family.

It’s hard for me to be “mean” to her though when I know she has something not quite right in her head. Plus, I’m just not a mean person. And every time I think she’s out of our lives, my SIL starts hanging out with her again, cause they’re “friends”.

My fiancé has told his sister how disrespectful it is, but she doesn’t care.

Yeah I've been there!!! Sometimes I thought she would try to do something to me.