@nataliielouiseexo ahh that's not on at all! I'd rip the duvet off him and chuck a cup of water on his face!😂 xx

@genieh yeah I understand that cause Gary works 8-5 but even when I was working and pregnant I did everything round the house even when I had 2 jobs too, I just want him to make some kind of effort he still isn't up and Kai is screaming 😐, yeah I still had to get up mothers day cause he went out and watched footy drinking lol I might just forget fathers day 😂😂 xx

@nataliielouiseexo it is so annoying, I don't mind so much cause at the end of the day, these are memories that he's missing out on and moments they'll never get back! I know how hard Tom works so I don't mind( he works all day like 8-5:30 then comes home and works from home after tea usually until like 10-11pm!) so I don't mind once in a while and I'm not even after a lie in I just want us to get up together and have breakfast and spend the day the three of us! Even on Mother's Day I didn't get lie in🙄 and he was like "well it's Mother's Day so it's a day to be a mum" ok so what am I the rest of the year? 🤔 fucking roll on Father's Day! I don't think I'll get out of bed all day!😂 xx

@genieh aye I 've had the volume up slamming doors without trying to scare Kai at the same time 😂 I woke him at 10 then 10:15 and now I've left Kai up there crying just so fucking fed up of it, I don't mind getting up with Kai it would just be nice if he said have a lie in I'll get up , all men must be the same lol xx

Lol same, it's always me up first! We live in a bungalow so I just make sure to slam the cupboards, let her scream for a bit, sing really loud, get Mr Tumble's nursery rhymes up on YouTube full blast😈😂😏 xx

@sara-lou86 I spoke to him a few weeks ago and he said its cause I'm too soft with him and that when I ask him to so something I snap at him 😂 no she hasn't I certainly would be raising Kai like that, I'm not having future girlfriends complain he does fuck all lol! he gets up on a Saturday usually with him but I still have to wake him to get up so by the time he's up with him I can't get back to sleep I might aswell of got up 😂 he's still in bed now I'll be speaking to him about it when he decides to get up I've woke him twice this week and he's gone back to sleep 😐

Yeh she's not helped raise an independent man. It may be very difficult for him to change but he can. I'd sit down and discuss what you both want and come up with a compromise. My husband would argue that when he's off he should get the lay in. But I asked when do I get one? Even when he works he doesn't have to get up till 8 or 9am because he often works from home. We now take it in turns. He would moan and groan but now he's more used to it he gets on with it. He'll moan in hopes you'll give up bothering. Don't. He needs to grow up and realise it's not the 1950's lol

@kronaghmc99 they really are no common sense at all xx

Men are completely useless xx

@sara-lou86 he makes our tea couple of times a week apart from that I do it all, we've argued about it before when I've left his clothes on purpose, his mam has done everything for him all his life he's the golden boy, she said before it's her fault cause she would do his washing when he moved out (not with me) I feel bad for slagging him off cause he's not a bad person just lazy and bone idle 😐

Do you cook for him? Wash and iron his clothes etc? If so, stop. If he's not helping you, then stop helping him. When he runs to you because he has no clothes to wear or he's waiting for his dinner you can show him where the washing machine is & the cooker. If he's going to act like a child. Treat him like one. He's saying your soft then saying your snapping making out your the awkward one just to take the issue off of him.

@nataliielouiseexo Oh i deffinatly wouldn't it be amazing. sit there hands down the pants doing f*ck all. strolling out of bed gone 10 oclock absoloute jokes they are xx

@kerry26_92 I would love to be a man even just for day lol! xx

@nataliielouiseexo I just tell my oh to press start don't touch anything else lol... they don't do things because they know we will do it if it doesn't get done. maybe we should be men for a while xx

@kerry26_92 the last time he used the washing machine he asked me how to use it.. we've had it for 4 years 😐😂, it's certainly not a woman's job it's whoever lives in the house, I'll give it to Gary when he's out of bed he'll deal with Kai for abit so I can just sit without a baby on me 😂 xx

@nataliielouiseexo let him moan hun just say to him if u want them washing u know were the washing machine is, and if he says he doesn't no how to use it say tuff sh*t then. it's been four months and I still don't do he's washing just mine and the babies , he might not put the washing gell in but thats he's problem x My oh believes he shouldn't have to do the dishes says it's a womans job. he doesn't even help with the baby says that's what I'm here for xx

@kerry26_92 I've tried it before he moaned none stop he had no work clothes 😐, all I want is a little help or for him to have some common sense of there's a sick full of dishes do them.. basket full of washing do it.. bottles ready for the next day, I shouldn't have to ask it's frustrating sometimes I'll let it go and then other times I probably do snap cause I get sick of doing it xxx

this is my life, my oh thinks i just chat shit or I'm moaning at him

it really p*sses me of seriously. it would be nice to get some help but my oh is like yours will wait till he had his last pair of boxers on before he does any washing.. but now I give up doing his washing, just do your washing and leave he's on a separate pile he'll soon realise he hasn't got anything to wear and he'll get up and put them on a wash. it works hosently xxx

@kerry26_92 it's draining I don't know how many times I've told him I'm sick of doing it all myself, he's even told me he takes me for granted but nothing really changes cause if I ask him to do something he says I'm snapping 😐 xx

@shannonmiguel yep he leaves his clothes all over the room when the basket is right outside the door! it goes in one ear and out the other he's told me a few times he takes me for granted so he'll help for a few days then it's back to normal, I honestly don't know what men would do without us 😂 man child's xx

I know exactly how you feel, I could of wrote this my self xx

@srose1989 bless you it's not that i mind getting up it would just be nice he let me sleep seeing as that's what he's doing 😂😐

@shannonmiguel I've tried doing that I've left a sink full of dishes before etc and it made no difference I still had to do them cause I needed bottles, even when he did get up with Kai the other day he sent for a 4 hour nap, it's a pisstake, he told me before I'm too soft with him yet when I ask him to do something he says I don't say it in a nice way 😂😂 can't win! he has no common sense so a basket full of clothes would be left if I didn't do it cause he would wait til he was on his last boxers to do it, I'll be telling him again when he's up he didn't get out his pit til 12:30 yesterday 😐 it's like having another child it really is lol xx

Can’t remember the last time I had a sleep in think it was a few years ago 🤣