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lavender13
Tashiana ·Мама сына (7 лет)
any advice on co-parenting with someone when yall cant get along. he doesn’t have any rights but im trying not to be the girl that keeps a guy from their son. but there’s just so much conflict and disrespect even when i was pregnant. sometimes i want to just give up and block him
11.05.2018

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lavender13
Tashiana ·Мама сына (7 лет)
@masseymomma16, thank you. im trying my best (:
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massmomma16
MassMomma16·Мама дочки (8 лет)
@lavender13, that's just crazy to me! But yes you're doing right thing for your baby and that's you being a great mom. Definitely try to set something up in writing to protect you both! I would just try to keep everything about the baby only when you talk, if you don't already. It will take time but it will get easier. Hang in there momma
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lavender13
Tashiana ·Мама сына (7 лет)
@masseymomma16, texas just favors mothers. and with everything hes done it would be understandable if i just kept him out of our life. but im trying to be fair
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massmomma16
MassMomma16·Мама дочки (8 лет)
@lavender13, Oh, that's pretty ridiculous! You would think DNA would rule over marriage or a piece of paper. 🤔
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lavender13
Tashiana ·Мама сына (7 лет)
@masseymomma16, in texas the dad doesn’t have any rights without marriage. hes not on the birth certificate or anything
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massmomma16
MassMomma16·Мама дочки (8 лет)
He signed over his rights?
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mychemicalshaymance
Shay·Мама двоих (7 лет, 12 лет)
@lavender13 visitation orders can be set up any time regardless of status. Glad i could help 😁
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lavender13
Tashiana ·Мама сына (7 лет)
@shayybear, oh wow ok. thought u could only do that stuff if u were married. this helps a lot!
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mychemicalshaymance
Shay·Мама двоих (7 лет, 12 лет)
@lavender13 you could plan it out together then have it legally binding via a contract. Make it public drop offs so no arguing ensues. Who can do what. Vacation rules, Etcetera. Then have it become void once he's 16, and allow him to decide.
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lavender13
Tashiana ·Мама сына (7 лет)
@shayybear, it’s more of us avoiding each other cause we don’t get along. but i see what you’re saying
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mychemicalshaymance
Shay·Мама двоих (7 лет, 12 лет)
When he would see her, we settled it together. He stopped seeing her about 3 years ago though.

I'd suggest court mandated if him being apart of his life is very important to you. That way he has his set days and it's not wherever he feels like it.
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lavender13
Tashiana ·Мама сына (7 лет)
@shayybear, did court help or y’all decided together?
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mychemicalshaymance
Shay·Мама двоих (7 лет, 12 лет)
Visitation schedule.
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