Oh damn! I'm so sorry that this is happening to you! Kick them both to the curb! You deserve better than that!

@laywatz I can see how it was all jumbled together so it would come off that way. I'm glad you pointed it out. Gotta becareful how you word things.

@mokai08

Whew.... thanks for clearing that up and thank goodness you didn't actually think that way....

@laywatz not at all. Sometimes women like to take revenge on others but there is always reasons why people do things and their lives are more complicated than we realize. So it's better to move on and not dwell on hating others. The marriages broke down for many reasons including the cheating. I felt sorry for the lady who has the downsydrome child due to the challenges and could not hold any ill will towards her as I also am pregnant at an older age.

@mokai08 hold on... are you saying that having a child with down syndrome is a result of the mother's karma? Because she cheated with your husband?

I really hope you're not saying that... because that's so completely fucked up.

@selandriac exactly. Baby is way more important.

I’m taking it one day at a time not trying to stress to much cuz I have a lot going on with this pregnancy for one I’m high risk and I don’t wanna cause anymore problems but y’all have been so helpful

@selandriac trust me. Hold your head high and go on about your business. Karma will take care of them. My ex cheated on me with three women. Those women all knew me as a child. I divorced him and left them to their mess. Fast forward to today? All their marriages have crumbled. One has a downsyndrome child which is no easy feat, one has terrible rheumatoid arthritis... the list goes on and I actually have felt very sorry for them. I even talk to one of the women from time to time and we get on. My ex I never talk to cause he broke his vows. It takes time. You will get over it eventually but I feel your pain. God bless you as you go through this.

@selandriac, aww I’m so sorry love you had to go through this I can only imagine how your feeling you deserve so much better that’s NOT a friend and a man that really loves and cares about you wouldn’t put you through this especially so close to your due date

@fuhgeddaboudit, your right but he wasn’t staying with me he would come on the weekends because of his work schedule so I didn’t think anything

@fuhgeddaboudit, exactly Idk 😐 if I can even look at them anymore I honestly can say I hate BOTH of them because I gave this guy my all and everything Nd my ex friend I helped her when she lost everything being a good friend Nd now I’m the one left hurt 😞 for helping and being there for 2 people who I thought had my back the same way I did there

Thanks you guys It’s so hard not be able to be what u really wanna do but this is all crazy to me I always see it on jerry springer

When I was pregnant with my daughter my first husband was in a relationship with another girl while married too me. I had NO IDEA the whole time I trusted him and every word he said I found out months later eventually but it was the worst feeling in the world we eventually divorced bc that was something I could not get over and he kept cheating on me with other women. Once a cheater is always a cheater in my eyes. I’m so sorry your having to go through this

Sorry to hear that boo. Bye bye friend & husband!! How would they go against the grain like that tho? it's so many questions I would wanna ask but like you said our babies health is more important 💕 Hope you find some comfort in this love

@chantilly-lacebb, I only be with my sister and 4 year old daughter I didn’t even stay at my house last night because I was so hurt I left him there

I don't blame you! I wouldn't look at my husband the same ever again! I don't have friends either. I only hang out with my sisters. I only converse with other adults on here.

@chantilly-lacebb, I’m realizing I have no friends at all period Nd I can’t even look at him at all I’m just past hurt

@mommie_4, trust it almost did I swear but I had to realize my baby health is more important I’ll let karma deal with them

Thank God! That's really fucked up. This is why I don't have female friends. A "friend" came over right after I had my second. She changed into her bathing suit to show me but waited until my husband came home. Twirled around in front of him then said I'm just gonna wear this! I told her to go put her clothes on. She left soon after and I didn't see her for a few months! If you ever need to talk you can message me!

God bless your heart cause I don’t think I would’ve handled that too well my anger most definitely would’ve got the best of me

@chantilly-lacebb, trust I am

Trust now I know Nd my eyes are definitely open now just never thought it would happen to me

Oh damn! I'm so sorry that this is happening to you! Kick them both to the curb! You deserve better than that!

@selandriac Aww man I'm so sorry to hear that.SMH that sucks that was no boyfriend to begin with. I hope you get the strength to move on to bigger and better things hun you didn't need that in your life anyway.

I’ve been with my children father 6 years I would have never expected this at all Nd all I have is 9 weeks left of pregnancy Nd bad thing is we stay together

@prettygurl_30, well yesterday I found out my “ best friend “ of 20 years after I moved her into my house her Nd my children dad had sex and she sucked him right under my nose like I’ve never felt so hurt in my life 😢

You can message me if you want girl

What happened?

What's wrong him?