Me and my husband are thinking about having another kid, but i still have weight that i gained from my last pregnancy. I dont think im to big but is it okay for me to still try. I was reading that if you are overweight you should lose weight first. What should i do?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Ok so not using actual numbers.. But everyone knows I'm over weight since having my girls. It's no secret. BUT i was talking with my hubby last night and idk how we got to this but he said something like (not using actual numbers) no one should weigh 800lbs, they should take care of themselves. And i said so what if someone weighs 800lbs? He said no one should weigh that, they should be healthier. I said well i almost weigh 800! I'm in the 790s. And I'm healthy. I may be overweight but i don't have any diseases, no high cholesterol, no high blood pressure, i don't have a bad heart, lungs, or anything else. So I'm healthy I'm just over weight. So then we argued about him having an issue with my weight.. Am i wrong in this? Because it really hurt my feelings.. I've tried sooo many different things to lose weight but having hypothyroidism makes you gain/hard to lose. And my medications for depression and anxiety cause you to gain also.. So it's very hard to lose weight.. But i didn't even know he had an issue with my weight until last night..
This makes me happy. I think they are still having a sale if you are a feen like myself. 😍
I guess sharing my personal info on here means having it used against me in a personal disagreement yes I was raped and no you have no right to use my daughter against me as a personal jab
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Chynaa Otto·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (1 нед.)
@diegosmommy0213, i think i was freaking myself out cause they were saying how if your overweight its not okay! And all this stuff! I mean i understand being healthy, but i mean lets be honest not everyone is where their supposed to be in weight!
Harmonie·
Мама сына (4 года)
Not sure about hvn to lose weight thing .... I’m a big girl always been n it took me one wk to get pregnant .. so not sure on that
Chynaa Otto·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (1 нед.)
@raisinghazel, thanks love!! I hope so too! ❤️
Judine·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@chynaaotto lol see.. good luck on your baby making hope its a girl this time
Chynaa Otto·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (1 нед.)
@raisinghazel, im telling you! Even when i was at a good weight that thing said i was overweight like damn!!!
Chynaa Otto·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (1 нед.)
I totally feel you on that one!!!
Judine·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@chynaaotto they need to add like a extra 20 lbs to the max weight 😂😂...shit they want people out here looking like sticks
Sofie321·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Yea like.... I only ended up gaining 20 or 25 pounds this time because I was watching my weight. And nobody could tell that I was overweight....I'm still overweight but it doesn't look bad like the scale says lol. It distributes evenly I guess? Everybody's always surprised when I tell them how much I weigh.
Chynaa Otto·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (1 нед.)
@raisinghazel, girl, i promise you ill read something and be like oh no i got this!! But yeah thats why i said “overweight” cause according to my BMI chart i am lol so i was like damn!
Judine·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@chynaaotto 😂😂😂 if you keep reading you might find out you got cancer.. i was @ least 30lbs overweight when i got pregnant according to BMI charts im still overweight 😂😂😂 its a ton of fat people getting pregnant and giving birth with no issue... best advice would come from your GYN or DR
Chynaa Otto·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (1 нед.)
@raisinghazel, okay, see all my weight is really in my stomach from my first born so i didnt know if i was overweight but i think i just scared myself
Judine·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@chynaaotto no i gained like a extra 20 lbs towards the very end like 35+ weeks.. but lost it all plus extra after i had her
Chynaa Otto·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (1 нед.)
@raisinghazel, did you have any issues?
Chynaa Otto·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (1 нед.)
@sofie321, really! Oh no! I mean i am “overweight” but its really my stomach from my first! I just don’t want to have complications so when i read it online i was scared!
Sofie321·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I didn't lose all the weight I gained and I wanted to as well. But the urge of having another was stronger....it's a personal choice. Yes, it's the healthier, better choice...and might be easier to lose before baby. But again, it's your decision. I couldn't wait...I did end up having GD as well this time around...so just keep an eye out.
Judine·
Мама дочки (1 год)
i was overweight when i got pregnant so..... Go For It!! **my u professional opinion**