Would you guys be disappointed if your hubbys or SO didn't do anything for you on mother's day ?

i think i would! obviously if i knew we were low on money then okaaaay, but atleast he could say happy mothers day & make breakfast that morning or something. would mean a lot.

Not really, I’m not his mom 🤷🏻‍♀️

I usually get flowers and a card but if he didn’t get me anything I wouldn’t be disappointed

@swtlilbeauty me to... but I just don't know what to think..

@august.rae, that is true! but i wouldnt take it as being his mom, more like hes noticing how hard im trying to be a good mom. if that makes sense?

Well i am the mother to his children, so yes id be a bit disappointed lol

No I wouldn’t be. Bc I hubby works a lot so I know he’s busy wit work supporting his family so I don’t expect anything bc I’m blessed already

That’s me tho how I feel

I kno other women r expecting stuff p

No I don't sweat the small stuff.

With a happy Mother’s Day I’m good but since I don’t work i do expect for him to give me money to buy my mom something lol. If he gets me something that would be nice since I take care of my child 24/7 all by my self sometimes he help but not everyday or every time.

Everyone gets to feel differently. If you feel like he should get you something because you work hard for the family then girl you GO and give him hints. If he don’t get you nun and you’re disappointed you let his ass know.

Yes I'd be hurt.

I would be hurt.

I really want zach to not do anything for me on Mother’s Day.

Last year just sucked the holiday is just ruined for me at this point. I don’t want anything to do with it

Petty asf I know but I had high hopes for at LEAST my first Mother’s Day..

And him being nice to me for weeks after because he feels guilty for forgetting would be better than any gift

I know it sounds petty selfish or ungrateful but my so gets me stuff off offer up for birthday and mothers day and maybe normal day to day that would be ok but on mothers day I don't want a shirt that smells of another women. I don't need something expensive but I might be upset if no appreciation was shown on mothers day.

Nah. But, that is just the agreement my spouse and I have. We don't celebrate the small holidays by giving gifts. We do acknowledge the day by saying Happy Mothers/Father's Day, but we don't blow money on it. I did help my daughter make him a card last year for Father's day though. After all, he is her father. But it doesn't bother me not to receive a gift.

Regardless, how you personally feel about gifts is valid! Just because we aren't big on the gifting aspect of things, doesn't mean someone else is wrong for it or materialistic. Just communicate your expectations before the day so it isn't ruined it your spouse does less than you wanted to see.