And the doubt starts creeping in...i know he's trying to do better for us so why do i have all this doubt???
@ashb9689 i hope all goes well in the best scenario possible... but, if not... I'm sure you got this 😊
@zionandbellasmama he is. Back up plan would be me get a job and him leave he would get to visit the kids but I'd be done completely. It makes me,nervous to I'm going to talk to him about it when he calls later, he already knows my anxiety is bad again he just doesnt know why
@ashb9689 oh no0o0 im so sorry... is he supposed to be the provider for your family? Do you have a back up plan for income if he decided to not do his part?? This stuff makes me so nervous
@zionandbellasmama yeah its sorta different for me though cause DH is notorious for having a shody work history I actually separated from him for a bit because of it, and I decided to give him,another chance but I'm really starting to worry cause I'm seeing similar things happening again....
@ashb9689 oh i feel ya on this one .... this is my second ..my son is 12 and for the most part i was a single mom so I've always worked and took care of the both of us... but now with my SO I'm letting go of that independence and honestly Im terrified.... he is an electrician currently on the road but, he should be wirking local in the next couple of weeks. I'm still working but, will stop the 1st week of july
@zionandbellasmama if my DH can actually support us like he says he can, if he's still working like he's supposed to be...(hes a truck driver currently on the road)
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

Shittt i would no doubt about that any day any time i wont even blink to do it
Would ya ?
okay I don't do this normally plus I'm not judging anyone I just want some opinion on this!!
I was in this mom app and I guess this lady had purchase a 4500 dollars crib, its a beautiful crib no doubt but would you mommies spend this much money?
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Haven't been sleeping at all lately so my doctor suggested taking Benedryl to help me sleep....I doubt I will take it but I do need rest
@zionandbellasmama thank you