Y'all, please tell me I'm crazy. My SO wears these ridiculously sexy briefs and always in his tight, sexy Levi's.…

I've seen a doctor already because of my history of miscarriages. She told me I could take the maca root and then I'm on prenatals. She already told us for him an SA but he hasn't yet.

@brkelly, you haven’t been trying that long yet. I personally wouldn’t add any external influences into it unless there was a proven problem, I’ve read so many times about people taking pills and potions and adding all sorts to their diets just for it to mess up their cycles. When will a doctor see you? How long do you have to be trying for before they are willing to look into it?

That's the plan. He just hasn't done it yet. We are giving the d asparatic acid a go for a month or so.

Would he go to the dr, and get checked out? That will tell you for sure if his swimmers are ok or not.

We don't actually have one together so yes, we want one. We've been trying since December. I've been on vitamins and vitex and maca root for months! He took maca root two nights and said it was keeping him awake at night so he stopped but he found something else he tried this cycle. I asked last night if it didn't work, if he would consider cooling the boys off and he said no. We'd manage.

Well no. We might NOT manage. I was so frustrated but the last thing I want to do is argue about conceiving. We both want it. I don't want it to cause stress and frustration between us but it ticked me off! It doesn't do me any good to do everything I'm doing if you can't do your part. I'm doing all of this and I KNOW I have no issues getting pregnant. I've had three pregnancies (2 mc) all conceived very easily. It's frustrating!!

Does he want another kid? We make so many sacrifices being pregnant, he can wear looser underwear while you guys try.

Yea. That's what I thought too. It makes me think it won't happen. He says he can't not have the support while he's working.

Yea he really needs to wear loser clothing, if there in something tight that's not good for Ttc.