Hi everybody. I am about to do my final fet to try for a sibling for my almost 2 year old son. I know they say to take it easy for 5 days, but i also know throughout pregnancy there is weight limits to what you should carry. Did you not hold your toddlers while pregnant the second time? At minimum for first 5 days how do i keep him from jumping on me?
@jess.rachel.miller yes that is the big issue getting him into the car seat. The crib and high chair hubby can help but i usually take him to and from school. And even walking he is a great runner but sometimes gets lazy and wants to be held or fights where i want him to go so i have to physically carry him
I haven’t picked my son up at all much since my FET on 4/25. A couple times I have had to lift him in and out of his car seat or high chair, but I’ve been asking for help from my hubby and mom when she has been around. I let him sit in my lap or sit and lie next to me, he holds my hand when we walk, etc. I will probably get more relaxed once I feel things have settled in a little better. ❤️ and best wishes!
Toddlers are supposed to be needy 😂 If they didn’t bug us all day long pushing us to hide in some secret corners of the house just to get a bite of something we love to eat like chocolate or ice cream or some other delight then they’re not keeping us on our toes... 😂 I’d suggest having lil man sit in your lap when you’re sitting, instead of picking him up hold his hand if he goes for it, have him lay next to you when you’re laying down so he gets extra snuggle time, it’s ok if he sits in your lap, toddlers are great climbers and you can assist him with climbing into your lap. My baby girl loves to slam her body on momma sometimes and I block her with my hands open or I grab her before she jumps into me. I’m 10 weeks along, she’s almost two on day of royal wedding and she’s just about 30ibs and due to my cervix it’s adviced I don’t do any heavy lifting due to my cervix so my dh usually picks her up when she wants to be lifted. It’s really hard not to pick their sweet little selves up however it’s just a temporary restriction unless the dr restrictions the entire pregnancy then that’s a different story! Good luck with your transfer in just a couple of days!
Yes. I want to surprise people too. My husband will help but I love my snuggles. I don’t want him to never snuggle again.
Following. I'm going to be da same. My Dd is so needy and sleeps on top of me and also when she wakes up for naps she tells me her feet hurt dat she can't walk so I have to carry her back down the stairs. I'm doing my fet next month and very nervous. I could ask for help but want this a surprise pregnacy.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
What do YOU judge
Clearly, no one is a perfect parent nor do we know everything. But what’s something you judge a parent off of or just irks you?
Question ladies I started giving my son solid food at 4 1/2 months old. And I only gave him 2oz of oatmeal and half a container of veggies once a day he gets it before bed I'm currently still doing the same feeding with it but I know when they get older you can do veggies like 2-3 times a day. How much do you guys do a day?
I know this is TMI but do y'all know the night or day or morning you got pregnant ?
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
@gatorgirl419, just ask for help whenever you can!