So my SO gets overprotective when I decide to let my side of the family watch the baby or play with her but when his side of the family does the same thing it's not a problem. It's really starting to make me mad and when I bring it up he pretends that I'm just exaggerating when I clearly see what's going on.
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@deepsoul0490 same, sometimes I really just want to be like okay well this is done. Cause if you can't compromise in our relationship and I can then this isn't gonna work. It goes both ways. I wish there was a good solution.
@qwiona, exactly!!!! He says oh u don’t have to be nice to mine i dont ask u too 😒 i wasnt raised like that he literaly like hates when i go to my moms alone with my daughter and like u said i cant even enjoy time with the family because his mad the entire time makes it soooo awkward everyone’s happy playing with the grandkids and his all serious just watching our daughter 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ girl it’s really stressful it literaly has made me think about him differently lately ..😔
@deepsoul0490 same with me. I just hate it so much. So we're going to my mom's this weekend and just so I don't have to deal with it, I told him to stay home. And it's like I can't even enjoy my family and him at the same time cause he has a problem. But when it's time for me to put up with his family I do. He says he doesn't ask me to and I get that but I do it so things could be solid with us and he can't do this one thing for me?
Omg same hereeeee he hates if anyone in my family holds her or anything it’s been super annoying his mom can play with her the whole time we’re at her house but if my parents do it he calls them annoying or there smothering her 😡😡 it gets really bad sometimes because they can tell he doesn’t want them touching her he was never like that until we had a kid ....
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@qwiona, i know 😔 it’s really upsetting and they don’t realize it actually hurts our feelings