Alright this is my first post on this app since coming from the apocalyptic land we knew as BB.

Someone had that name on BB. But if shes on here, Id love to propose.

Darn should of used Princess Consuela Banana Hammock as mine

@joffree. Well, thank you. I love my name too.

@crapbag, I love your name. 😍🙌 I just wanted to say that. 😂

I too went to university and after the grants and bursaries all I had to pay for was my books, which don’t get me wrong they were out the butt expensive. I don’t think your thought process on it is irrational though! If you do decide to have another womb squatter hopefully they get a scholarship 👩‍🎓 👨‍🎓

@mamabear1515 yeah my 4 year old is already talking about joining my husbands plumbing business. Lol 1 down!

Lol im so sorry but i thought the same. About one of your children possibly not going to college. There's just so many possibilities. My parents have 6. 2 to college. 1 in trade school. 2 drop outs. Im sure they would have loved it if we all went but they couldn't have afforded all of us lol

@catlikethief thats reassuring, its why my kids play sports! Lol every parents dream--for their kids to be good enough to get that full ride! Being a minority, you would think Id have gotten a ton of scholarships but I didnt get a single one.

My husband is an engineer and had almost all of his schooling paid for with grants and scholarships. I wouldn't let schooling be a deciding factor.

@leowifey I guess it deters me thinking how I had zero help and how hard it was as a young adult to have the amount of debt I did. My husband and I are both very financially stable currently however, its really been stopping me!

I think putting them through college wouldn't be a good enough deterrent for me. Maybe he won't want to go to college? Maybe a trade school? Maybe college tuition won't be the equivalent of lifelong crippling debt by then? Who knows?

That said, if I didn't feel financially stable enough to support another child current, that would probably deter me.

@landloglillexliv wise words woman.

@ailurophiliac haha thanks i was between that and Little Black Curly Hair.

The postpartum with both kids was never really that bad, of course we forget that part and repress all those terrible memories. And hell no thats not selfish, your body, your damn right.

P.s. LOVE the cat name

I think if u really want another, go for it. Don't let this be the one thing that holds u back. You will figure it out. Things always change. You'll never regret having a baby but u will regret not having one. Totally up to u though mama