Alright this is my first post on this app since coming from the apocalyptic land we knew as BB.
I have 3 kids, one being my step daughter, nevertheless, my child.
Lately I have had thoughts of another child, even pregnant dreams. Now dont get me wrong...I complain, yell, drink wine in the bathroom, lose my shit every time Im trying to walk out the front door with 3 kids. BUT, I love my children and would maybe, possible like to have another? (I know, i know, its crazy right?)
Heres whats stopping me. Well one, my IUD (ba dum bum). But seriously I CANT afford to send 3 kids off to college, let alone a 4th. Is this a dumb excuse for not wanting more? Or is this how rational people think?
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Darn should of used Princess Consuela Banana Hammock as mine
@crapbag, I love your name. 😍🙌 I just wanted to say that. 😂
I too went to university and after the grants and bursaries all I had to pay for was my books, which don’t get me wrong they were out the butt expensive. I don’t think your thought process on it is irrational though! If you do decide to have another womb squatter hopefully they get a scholarship 👩🎓 👨🎓
@mamabear1515 yeah my 4 year old is already talking about joining my husbands plumbing business. Lol 1 down!
Lol im so sorry but i thought the same. About one of your children possibly not going to college. There's just so many possibilities. My parents have 6. 2 to college. 1 in trade school. 2 drop outs. Im sure they would have loved it if we all went but they couldn't have afforded all of us lol
@catlikethief thats reassuring, its why my kids play sports! Lol every parents dream--for their kids to be good enough to get that full ride! Being a minority, you would think Id have gotten a ton of scholarships but I didnt get a single one.
My husband is an engineer and had almost all of his schooling paid for with grants and scholarships. I wouldn't let schooling be a deciding factor.
@leowifey I guess it deters me thinking how I had zero help and how hard it was as a young adult to have the amount of debt I did. My husband and I are both very financially stable currently however, its really been stopping me!
I think putting them through college wouldn't be a good enough deterrent for me. Maybe he won't want to go to college? Maybe a trade school? Maybe college tuition won't be the equivalent of lifelong crippling debt by then? Who knows?
That said, if I didn't feel financially stable enough to support another child current, that would probably deter me.
@ailurophiliac haha thanks i was between that and Little Black Curly Hair.
The postpartum with both kids was never really that bad, of course we forget that part and repress all those terrible memories. And hell no thats not selfish, your body, your damn right.
P.s. LOVE the cat name
I think if u really want another, go for it. Don't let this be the one thing that holds u back. You will figure it out. Things always change. You'll never regret having a baby but u will regret not having one. Totally up to u though mama
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Ladies that have 3 kids and kinda close to my kids age what car seat do you have? Also how do you have then in your car as well. I have a suv and can move one child to thrid row but dont want to just yet.
so my first child was done by c section and so will this child....but i have a question...I was told I can only have three kids since they will be done by cesarean... anyone know??
Smh so my mama and boyfriend have a car but niether one of them will give me a ride to the children hospital for my son. Both them talking about they know what’s going on with him? Smh I swear I already talk to on call doctor & they told me take him to er. I know my child don’t have no stomach virus. I know something is seriously wrong with my son.
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
Someone had that name on BB. But if shes on here, Id love to propose.