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Paige Porter
Paige Porter
Многодетная мама (5 детей)

Ladies I need your advice...

Ladies I need your advice...

Since I've been with my OH, he has always played darts every Tuesday night so last year I thought fuck it I'll join in too and I've improved a lot since last year since playing. I wanted something for me and my OH to do together as a couple but this year my "best mate" and her fiance have joined in. My "best mate" doesn't even play she just goes there to get drunk and for the free feed we get from the place we play. It's only started back up again for a month and a half and I no longer feel like it's something for me and my partner to do together and I've been very unsure on how to tell him.. He is always busy working and when his home he eats plays with ds if ds is awake and then goes to bed and sleeps. My "friend" is always down my neck about drinking my drink faster when I've gone on Tuesday nights and Ive told her where to shove it each time. She's the same age as me, her fiance is two years older then me and they are forever in debt 🙄 and wonder why they are broke after Tuesday night.

Any ways, how would you tell your partner how you feel about not feeling like it's something you and him can do together anymore?? 😔

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paige_1999

Paige Porter Многодетная мама (5 детей)

I'm hoping so @two_blessings but with both our work rosters changing we don't have any night available to even have a date night 😔

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two_blessings

Taylah Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года)

Honesty is everything, just tell him. Maybe you can find something new to do 🙂💕

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paige_1999

Paige Porter Многодетная мама (5 детей)

Everytime I go to say anything my heart races and my mouth won't move. Normally when it comes to A and B I can say what I really want to but when it has came to this I can't. But I am going to try tonight once he finishes work

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mariapb

MariaМама сына-младенца

Just ask him how he feels about it now. He might be feeling the same way but doesn’t want to say because it’s your friends. Say something like “Darts isn’t really the same since A and B started coming is it?”

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