@tba09 hmm well i think i rather have that. Knowing my daughter she is stubborn. I'll keep trying to figure out ways to minimize my daughters habits for now.

Mine needs to hold my hand to fall asleep . And just as she starts getting a little drowsy she will push her self to get up and request for the other hand . There is something I feel she is searching for . Maybe one hand becomes too warm so she wants the other and whenever she gets up throughout the night she will ask for my hand . Her crib is now turn into a toddler bed and attached to my side of the bed so she can reach for my hand anytime she wants . If she doesn’t get my hand she will just climb on to me and sleep between my husband and I so I rather give her the hand .