I had trait issues for years... what I did was observe people, get to know them really well and then I can decided rather or not they can trusted... to many times people jump in relationships or surround themselves around the wrong people without considering who the person is as a person! Everyone can’t be trusted, but you can avoid getting hurt by taking your time with people.. Never be an open book or let down your vulnerability too soon! The Bible even says to guard your heart!
@alisialittles03, You are Soooo right ! Even w/ my relationship though . He’s done things in the pass & I can really tell he’s changing & It’s like I’m just holding on to the last . Keeping my Guard up 🤷🏽♀️ Just don’t wanna get hurt again .
Oh yea @keilaa, I feel ya! When it comes to men we always give second chances, then third chances, then before you know it we have giving them 7,570 chances lol...But if you are willing to stay with him you have to be willing to let go of the pain and acknowledge his change. You agreed to change once you’ve given him the second or third chance so embrace the new him and allow yourself to enjoy him! This go around might be the one time when he really is trying to get his shit together!
Kayla ·
Мама дочки-младенца
You’re not the only one .
Megan Cragle·
Мама сына-младенца
You are definitely not alone I fight it every day
Alisia ·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I had trait issues for years... what I did was observe people, get to know them really well and then I can decided rather or not they can trusted... to many times people jump in relationships or surround themselves around the wrong people without considering who the person is as a person! Everyone can’t be trusted, but you can avoid getting hurt by taking your time with people.. Never be an open book or let down your vulnerability too soon! The Bible even says to guard your heart!
Keilaa💋·
@alisialittles03, You are Soooo right ! Even w/ my relationship though . He’s done things in the pass & I can really tell he’s changing & It’s like I’m just holding on to the last . Keeping my Guard up 🤷🏽♀️ Just don’t wanna get hurt again .
Alisia ·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Oh yea @keilaa, I feel ya! When it comes to men we always give second chances, then third chances, then before you know it we have giving them 7,570 chances lol...But if you are willing to stay with him you have to be willing to let go of the pain and acknowledge his change. You agreed to change once you’ve given him the second or third chance so embrace the new him and allow yourself to enjoy him! This go around might be the one time when he really is trying to get his shit together!