@redheadedmonster yeah I can understand that, my twins were super preemies born 4 months early and it scares the life out of me to being trying one last time for a girl and it will completely devastate me if it's another boy but on the other hand I just want to get past 23w6d with what will be my last pregnancy.

@yesssjadeee25, absolutely. I love my children more than life itself. But I do yearn for a girl. My 2 youngest are preemies. I don’t do well pregnant. So we won’t have anymore. I think it’ll always bother me though.

@redheadedmonster does it ever bother you that you don't have a girl?

Look up the Shettles method. I didn’t know about it til I had my 3rd boy and we are done. But I’ve heard great things about it!!